Opening up about my sexuality and concerns

[Someone here]

15 minutes ago, Cykaaaa said:

Ahh, the urge to understand & conceptualize...  We can't live if everything is not coherent, confusion is a no no! 

Sorry, I'm messing with you.

Idk man. Good luck figuring it out, if you feel the need to. Although maybe u could just live and let your life blossom like a flower. 

Don't worry .I'm not losing sleep over this. It's just for fun .sex is about fun and discovery isn't it? 

[LSD-Rumi]

@Someone here I think I was like this since ever but repressing it subconsciously. I started consuming stage green media and part of integrating green is to embrace my true sexuality. So I started opening up and I was amazed that I was really attracted to men and started watching and enjoying gay porn. I remember sincw ever I used to put things up my ass and I was really annoyed by that and I didn't really understood why, but now I do, I am bisexual.

39 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I have a theory that watching porn can change and shift your sexual preferences, 

This is stupid. Sexuality is a spectrum, and apperantly you are not at the "straight" end of the spectrum.

Why are you conceiving this attraction as bad or wrong? It is not. The lesson here is to embrace your sexuality, be a man and accept the dick ?

[Someone here]

4 minutes ago, LSD-Rumi said:

@Someone here I think I was like this since ever but repressing it subconsciously. I started consuming stage green media and part of integrating green is to embrace my true sexuality. So I started opening up and I was amazed that I was really attracted to men and started watching and enjoying gay porn. I remember sincw ever I used to put things up my ass and I was really annoyed by that and I didn't really understood why, but now I do, I am bisexual.

This is stupid. Sexuality is a spectrum, and apperantly you are not at the "straight" end of the spectrum.

Why are you conceiving this attraction as bad or wrong? It is not. The lesson here is to embrace your sexuality, be a man and accept the dick ?

So you were attracted to cocks since your puberty?  That's not the case for me . 

If what you're saying is true then you clearly are gay or bisexual at the very least . But for Me its different. I started out normal straight guy who gets hard when seeing hot women . But as my porn habit went deeper I started craving weird things .one of which is this Induced  attraction to dicks .

I know it hurts women's feelings here to say “ ‘vaginas are gross’. 

 li ove having sex with women because some women are hot. “Thouh I will say they only lack a nice dick ?

[SgtPepper]

@Someone here

I don't know man... the more you talk about this, the more I think you are likely gay or at least very bisexual, and are repressing it. 

what in the heck are you, as a 'hetero' man going to do with a dick? 

Edited May 16, 2022 by SgtPepper

[Someone here]

40 minutes ago, SgtPepper said:

@Someone here

I don't know man... the more you talk about this, the more I think you are likely gay or at least very bisexual, and are repressing it. 

what in the heck are you, as a 'hetero' man going to do with a dick? 

Yes I am bisexual. I like both men and women.   I said that enough times.  Why are you acting surprised ?

[somegirl]

@Someone here

Well I think you should be able to find girls who have went through medical procedures to get a real penis. Some girls are into that and don't find it strange. So don't worry.

Embrace who you are and what you like (as long as it's not hurting anyone ?)!

[Someone here]

9 minutes ago, somegirl said:

Well I think you should be able to find girls who have went through medical procedures to get a real penis. 

Obviously they are pretty rare and difficult to find. 

I will just buy my girl a dildo or smth ?

[puporing]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

I will just buy my girl a dildo strap-on or smth ?

 

Edited May 16, 2022 by puporing

[Leo Gura]

10 hours ago, Someone here said:

What do you find appealing about a pussy ?

If I have to explain it, then you ain't attracted to pussy.

Attraction is an arbitrary bias. It has zero rational justification.

If you were straight you would be madly attracted to pussy for no explicable reason. That's what being straight means.

And if you were a goat you would be madly attracted to goats.

[PenguinPablo]

59 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If I have to explain it, then you ain't attracted to pussy.

Attraction is an arbitrary bias. It has zero rational justification.

If you were straight you would be madly attracted to pussy for no explicable reason. That's what being straight means.

And if you were a goat you would be madly attracted to goats.

ehh I feel your sentiments towards sexuality are too black and white. there's also elements of toxic masculinity. I'm surprised you haven't explored this facet of your humanity very much. not necessarily in the sense of experimenting with same sex but simply your views on this are very binary. 

"Bro you don't like pussy? GAYYYY!!!!"

 

Edited May 17, 2022 by PenguinPablo

[MarkKol]

21 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

3. This one is rather embarrassing.  But I find a dick more attractive than a vagina.  Idk why.  Something about a long hard dick arouses me . I don't think I'm gay. But I know for sure that I'm bisexual as I experience sexual attraction to both males and females. I like girls more .from head to toe.but the only part I find more attractive in a man is his dick. Looking at a pussy doesn't turn me on . Its just a hole. Whereas dicks seem arousing and attractive to me .

Brother just wait till you hear my story, I also identify as sorta straight, never watched gay porn                never watched anything besides Man + woman, it's very clear to me that I'm straight but I also don't find pussies attractive in certain positions like... like from the bottom up, or when a girl is standing up... I just don't find it amusing. But doggy or missionary... man I'm hard as a rock. I don't find dicks attractive BUT I get aroused when I see a tall slim male, wouldn't say that I'd have sex with them but im very attracted to that specific stereotype for some reason.

 

If Hitler was president, we would probably all be dead.

Edited May 17, 2022 by MarkKol

[Raze]

18 hours ago, Someone here said:

Yes I watch porn . I dont remember exactly.  I started out pretty straight. Only watching guy and girl scenes. But as the years went by..I started developing attraction to dicks. I still like girls tho .but i also like dicks .doesn't that make bisexual? 

You need to stop using porn. It’s possible this is a porn induced fetish.

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ybop-articles-on-porn-addiction-porn-induced-problems/effects-of-porn-on-the-user/straight-men-gay-porn-and-other-brain-map-mysteries-2010/
 

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/is-my-fetish-porn-induced/

 

[Leo Gura]

51 minutes ago, PenguinPablo said:

ehh I feel your sentiments towards sexuality are too black and white.

Obviously straight/gay is not a binary, there is a spectrum.

I am talking about the far extreme of straightness -- which is my bias.

[Joel3102]

25 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Obviously straight/gay is not a binary, there is a spectrum.

I am talking about the far extreme of straightness -- which is my bias.

Do you think most straight guys have at least 1% gay in them that they deny?

[Tudo]

Maybe it's your real sexuality, or maybe it's too much porn and lack of real-life sex and relationship.

I'm a straight guy and think pussy is pretty beautiful, especially n some positions, and I love to touch, lick, the taste, and everything. But I also have fetishes about fucking a girl in the ass too lol. I don't know, I think it's not about the anal sex itself, it just makes me feel more dominant tbh

 

Edited May 17, 2022 by Tudo

[SgtPepper]

5 hours ago, Someone here said:

Yes I am bisexual. I like both men and women.   I said that enough times.  Why are you acting surprised ?

You said vaginas are gross.  It's just not something I imagine people sexually attracted to women would say. but I don't know man, all we can do is make the choice to understand who we are 

[michaelcycle00]

You're just into transsexual people. That's all. Don't worry about what the term for that is, it doesn't matter. I couldn't find it anyway.

As a heterosexual 22 y/o male I can tell you I have never been disgusted by the look of a pussy. The opposite in fact. When I watch porn, and I see a pussy, I start salivating. Like I feel so attracted to it that just fucking it wouldn't cut it. I would need to lick both the vulva and the anus while somehow being able to penetrate the vagina at the same time to feel satisfied. I know this is obviously physically impossible, but that's how strong the impulse is. Telling you this so you get an idea of how straight males feel about it. 

Not all pussies look, visually speaking, "beautiful", but they certainly all look enticing.

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Joel3102 said:

Do you think most straight guys have at least 1% gay in them that they deny?

Hard to say because I haven't done any statistical analysis on the matter.

But I suspect that plenty of guys got more than 1% gay in them. This % will increase in guys who are attracted to spirituality.

[Leo Gura]

Psychedelics make me more in touch with my feminine side, but never affect my straightness, not even a little. They also put me in touch with my authentic masculinity.

[Tudo]

52 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

This % will increase in guys who are attracted to spirituality.

Why do you think this?