Masturbation is not worth it (for males )

[Someone here]

we all know after you nut one out you just lose it for a while. But not too long lol. You should recover within two days max. 

Also if you are not a horny teenager anymore you really shouldn't be yanking your Johnson anymore .  your testosterone just stabilize and you are not horny anymore unless you purposely arouse yourself.  Just save it for your girl. Also avoid pornograhy completely I don't need to tell ya that and don't bullshit my ass and say it's harmless. 

Also make sure you eat like a horse if you fap frequently to recover the lost energy. Or just don't fap at all if you are weak. 

[something_else]

14 minutes ago, Someone here said:

we all know after you nut one out you just lose it for a while. But not too long lol. You should recover within two days max.

???

Am I missing something? I don’t lose anything after I cum, I feel relaxed for like 30 mins then I’m back to normal

Why in the ever loving fuck would evolution evolve you to feel like shit for two days after you cum, that would be ridiculously, unbelievably counter-productive

If you feel that way it is absolutely not normal, or it’s in your head

[Someone here]

7 minutes ago, something_else said:

???

Am I missing something? I don’t lose anything after I cum, I feel relaxed for like 30 mins then I’m back to normal

Why in the ever loving fuck would evolution evolve you to feel like shit for two days after you cum, that would be ridiculously, unbelievably counter-productive

If you feel that way it is absolutely not normal, or it’s in your head

People are different . I admit that . For me personally I feel like a flimsy piece of shit after fapping. It takes you  very very high but then very very down .

By all means..you do you..iif you don't experience any side effects from it then go ahead and do it as much as you want. But for Me..I always get negative feelings after fapping. So you do you. And I do me .we are different. 

[something_else]

1 minute ago, Someone here said:

People are different . I admit that . For me personally I feel like a flimsy piece of shit after fapping. It takes you  very very high but then very very down .

Do you feel guilty? There’s absolutely no reason to feel guilt about it, it’s a natural thing

But yea, if it makes you feel shitty then don’t do it. I just struggle to imagine how that can be anything but conditioned belief or guilt or something

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do it as much as you want

There is definitely such a thing as too much. But I can’t really tell the difference between jerking off once a day or a few times a week, energy wise

[Someone here]

25 minutes ago, something_else said:

Do you feel guilty? There’s absolutely no reason to feel guilt about it, it’s a natural thing

But yea, if it makes you feel shitty then don’t do it. I just struggle to imagine how that can be anything but conditioned belief or guilt or something

There is definitely such a thing as too much. But I can’t really tell the difference between jerking off once a day or a few times a week, energy wise

The guilt has justifications . In Hinduism they believe there is a limited amount of Chi (sexual energy) in your system. Once you ejaculate you lose this vital energy. And it can't be replaced by eating food or charging up your battery so to speak. 

Now i understand that you never run out of semen ..your testicle produces millions of spern cells every day .  But the point is that the lost semen cannot be replaced. Its a new spern cells .what was lost will remain lost and there is no coming back 

Edited May 10, 2022 by Someone here

[Arcangelo]

These no fapping threads should be locked like the COVID ones.

 

[Realms of Wonder]

You may not like this opinion.

 

Over the last few years I’ve completely broken my addiction to porn and papping, building streaks of 90-180 days. And like you, felt like shit after masturbation, guilt, disappointment, and so on.

 

recently, after some perspective from people on the forum, I decided to intentional break a streak with mindful masturbation. Using it to process the shame I feel around my sexuality.  And holy shit, it’s hard to do that. Not only was it a emotional release of repressed sexuality, but my cravings to masturbate have decreased a ton after my sessions.

 

When I think of masturbation it’s not super attractive, and if I am

horny, without a partner, there’s no shame if I let loose, as long as it’s conscious and not an escape,

plus I felt absolutely no shame afterwards, I used it to fully accept myself.

 

Masturbation is not binary. It can be used for love, escapism, pleasure, and a ton of other things in between.

Edited May 10, 2022 by Realms of Wonder
Grammer

[NoSelfSelf]

Focusing on this bs wont get you any women ?

[Osaid]

4 hours ago, Someone here said:

In Hinduism they believe there is a limited amount of Chi (sexual energy) in your system.

You do lose sexual desires for a bit after masturbating, AKA post nut clarity, but that doesn't really affect energy levels for me. For me the only difference before vs after masturbation is literally just sexual desire, that's basically it. I don't need to be horny to have energy.

4 hours ago, something_else said:

But yea, if it makes you feel shitty then don’t do it. I just struggle to imagine how that can be anything but conditioned belief or guilt or something

There is something called POIS. I have a theory that people who feel tired or whatever after doing it might have a mild version of this condition. We don't really know how it works, a lot of sexuality is not studied very well. I used to think all of it was just projection until I heard about this condition.

5 hours ago, Someone here said:

Also make sure you eat like a horse if you fap frequently to recover the lost energy.

I'm honestly curious how many people here actually experience a loss of energy from masturbating, like how normal is it. Would be an interesting poll.

5 hours ago, Someone here said:

The guilt has justifications

Even if that is true, guilt is still not justified. Guilt is just silly ego activity.

5 hours ago, Someone here said:

The guilt has justifications . In Hinduism they believe there is a limited amount of Chi (sexual energy) in your system. Once you ejaculate you lose this vital energy. And it can't be replaced by eating food or charging up your battery so to speak. 

Now i understand that you never run out of semen ..your testicle produces millions of spern cells every day .  But the point is that the lost semen cannot be replaced. Its a new spern cells .what was lost will remain lost and there is no coming back 

Why does it matter if the previous sperm cells are gone? I feel like I'm watching someone guilt-trip themselves because of some religious belief.

[Someone here]

9 hours ago, Osaid said:

Im honestly curious how many people here actually experience a loss of energy from masturbating, like how normal is it. Would be an interesting poll.

Will do it. 

You can participate if you like. 

Edited May 10, 2022 by Someone here