Does Porn Contribute to BadSex

[Thought Art]

Do you think Porn contributes to the increase of decrease in bad sex and things like rape? Or change the causes for and against them?

Does violent and male or oriented highly visual based pornography and hentai teach men the wrong ideas about sex in general? Causing poor sexual partners, false ideas about consent etc? 
 

Or does porn have many facets to it. There are different kinds. 
 

thoughts?

[SgtPepper]

I think it can do both good and bad but probably more likely harmful if porn is your only exposure or experience to sex. 

I think the biggest factor is how people are raised though.

 

Edited May 4, 2022 by SgtPepper

[soos_mite_ah]

I do believe there are studies on how porn can cause people to have different perceptions of sex and make them more likely to engage in violence. 

Also, from a woman's perspective, porn might look good but doing exactly what's on screen irl doesn't always feel the best. Because the camera is trying to get the best angle possible instead of depicting what might actually get a woman off. Also it's like 99% of the time from a man's (specifically a white man's) perspective so a lot of things can get skewed there. Not to mention a lot of the racist stereotypes porn puts on. That definately fucks with women and other minorities, especially women of color which can lead to things like fetishization and violence. 

[puporing]

Can help or not help depending. Helps by giving you ideas, finding out your preferences; unhelpful perhaps if one now restricts themselves to a very strict kind of sex because of what they saw and cannot enjoy themselves otherwise. 

Some extreme examples of this I came across before were guy preferring anime girls; guy can only get hard with anal sex, etc.
 

[The0Self]

Probably helps at first but eventually (as a straight man anyway) you just have to intuitively learn what works. Experiment with dynamics. Some things that felt very weird to me at first have eventually developed into automatic sexual habits because the response they provoke is so intense -- I can tell by how forcefully women momentarily produce lube in their vagina. Sometimes I'll say "good girl" (generally in some context) and it's ridiculous how instantaneously wet some women get... especially the older they are. And that's really not something I would have personally ever expected, no matter how much porn I watched.

[RendHeaven]

JAV >>>

[Preety_India]

I have avoided porn for the longest time. 

Evil shit.

 

[Thought Art]

I think there are different kinds of porn

been thinking of watching more tantric porn 

[Rokazulu]

It has its degrees of obscenity, but again— so does all of our entertainment.
I don't see how a drawing of a naked person, as an example, can create harm to anyone.

In the very distant future, it is definitely possible that the popularity of anything that has even a hint of violence will start dropping as our consciousness slowly begins to raise.

I will say though! Pornography is definitely my greatest weakness. But, I suppose if I didn't have one vice, I would start floating away.


 

Edited May 5, 2022 by Rokazulu

[Tristan12]

12 hours ago, The0Self said:

it's ridiculous how instantaneously wet some women get

I have the same experience whenever I whip out my Pokémon card collection

[something_else]

It helps you learn what you like quite efficiently and gives you interesting ideas for things to try

It also desensitises you and wares out your sexual mind in excess

It’s probably a good thing in moderation, demonising it is probably quite unhealthy as well