Leo scolding fans for emulating his own advice instead of admitting to being wrong?

[johnlocke18]

He shifts blame on his followers instead of admitting to being wrong. For example, I recently seen a post with a girl (prettyinda) posting about being diagnosed bpd, and a dude replied he would never date her, and Leo deleted him. The problem is he was following Leo’s own advice from the “30 red flags” and a few other relationship videos, and then Leo blocks him for it. He’s also scolded many other dudes on here for having the same disrespectful ideas from the videos he keeps up. It’s the same thing with psychedelics, he scolds and blocks people for either using them irresponsibly, or acting crazy and posting high, when he’s done both while keeping the videos up. He trashed adeptus psychonautica and Conor Murphy on here for months just for pointing this out. This is how a fragile leader leads to gaslighting. NEVER admitting to being wrong. 

[Carl-Richard]

8 minutes ago, johnlocke18 said:

For example, I recently seen a post with a girl (prettyinda) posting about being diagnosed bpd, and a dude replied he would never date her, and Leo deleted him. 

If he had said it without also being disrespectful, then maybe that wouldn't have happened 

[thisintegrated]

Maybe Leo gives special treatment to the people keeping the forum alive?

btw you disrespectfully misspelled her name.  Won't be surprised if you get banned for this..

 

17 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

If he had said it without also being disrespectful, then maybe that wouldn't have happened 

A ban for being rude on one occasion is excessive, however you look at it.  You never know all the details.  Maybe Pretty insulted him a month ago or something, you never know.  Don't try to justify insta-bans like this.

Actually.. just checked.  He didn't "delete him" from the forum.  Just a suspension.  Faith in Leo restored? Maybe? lol.  Can't see the deleted posts now so we'll never know if he deserved it.

Edited April 28, 2022 by thisintegrated

[RMQualtrough]

Cope.

[puporing]

I don't think being rude was ever his advice. 

[Carl-Richard]

50 minutes ago, thisintegrated said:

A ban

Nope

[johnlocke18]

@Carl-Richard Ah, so as one of Leo’s moderators you agreed with the guy saying not to date bpd women? So that must mean Leo still stands with his statement not to date them since you represent him? Wonder how that makes the bpd people on this site feel? 

[johnlocke18]

@puporing Ah so being rude to bpd people is worse than Leo telling his entire community to avoid them basically inadvertently isolating them? Makes sense.

Edited April 28, 2022 by johnlocke18

[johnlocke18]

@RMQualtrough That’s how cults work actually, just shut everyone else out and stay in denial. The irony is insane lmao. 

[nistake]

1 hour ago, thisintegrated said:

btw you disrespectfully misspelled her name.  Won't be surprised if you get banned for this..

I mean come on

[johnlocke18]

@Benton So being rude to bpd people is worse than Leo telling his whole community to avoid and basically isolate them? Because that’s basically what his influence does. Kind of two faced then for him to defend her. 

Edited April 28, 2022 by johnlocke18

[johnlocke18]

@Carl-Richard So basically it’s not okay to be a dick to bpd women, but it’s okay leo tells his whole community to avoid and inadvertently isolate them? Makes sense. I’m sure the girl he defended enjoys him telling his whole community to stay away from people like her. 

Edited April 28, 2022 by johnlocke18

[Carl-Richard]

39 minutes ago, johnlocke18 said:

@Carl-Richard Ah, so as one of Leo’s moderators you agreed with the guy saying not to date bpd women? So that must mean Leo still stands with his statement not to date them since you represent him? Wonder how that makes the bpd people on this site feel? 

I don't represent Leo.

[johnlocke18]

@Carl-Richard Well still it’s kind of two faced to be against being rude to bpd people while supporting someone’s idea to avoid them. Isolating someone is worse than being rude to them. 

Edited April 28, 2022 by johnlocke18

[johnlocke18]

@thisintegrated The main idea though is the he deleted the dude for basically emulating him. He attacked her mainly saying he doesn’t date bpd people, following Leo’s advice. And got deleted. If you enjoy taking the blame for Leo’s poor advice have fun, since it’s always your “misinterpretation” haha. 

[Arthogaan]

Can't you see a difference between saying to an audience: "generally being fat is not healthy, can be a sign of lack of discipline and you should avoid that it in yourself and your potential partner" vs talking with a fat person that you know is insecure and saying to his/her face "you are fat, I would never date you"?

Or giving advice that if you are into self-development you should avoid being in relationship with toxic people vs
talking with an insecure person and saying "you are so toxic, I would never date you"

 

Edited April 28, 2022 by Arthogaan

[Leo Gura]

Don't waste our time with your nonsense.