Is trying to get with a popular guy worth it?

[somegirl]

On 4/29/2022 at 4:02 AM, SgtPepper said:

The thing is... you don't know this person. 

I feel like best case scenario, just hang out with them as a potential partner, but I'd avoid sex if you want to make yourself stand out and communicate you are looking for a serious long term relationship, unless one night stands are your thing. 

What about kissing?  

[SgtPepper]

13 minutes ago, somegirl said:

What about kissing?  

I think kissing is okay after a good time and you feel some level of trust/hope in that person 

On those first dates, it indicated to me that the girl 100% liked me and I always left feeling so fuzzy and warm  Kissing on a first date is such a magical thing

I just think sex is like tripping on psychedelics, and it's safer to do it with people you know you can trust  

I've also seen people regret it when they become disillusioned by the person and the dissolution of the relationship appeared to be more painful. I trust that you know in your conscience what is right. I haven't heard of people complaining about taking relationships slow 

[somegirl]

43 minutes ago, SgtPepper said:

Kissing on a first date is such a magical thing

It indeed is 

43 minutes ago, SgtPepper said:

I just think sex is like tripping on psychedelics, and it's safer to do it with people you know you can trust  

Yeah, absolutely.