Preety_India

Making friends can be mentally draining, is it worth it?

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@meta_male thanks a ton for understanding 

 

 


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@Preety_India its pointless to give you advice at this point because you never see yourself as a problem(this is self development not global development) and ofcourse we will assume stuff its on you to see if its applys to your life or it does not..immedietly attacking someone and having triggered attitude is a problem that nobody want to deal with if you cant see that then we cant help you..


There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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@Preety_India btw, I grew up in a Christian cult and lost all friends as I left. I struggled with similar issues you do now, that's why I kept coming back to your post. Just trying to help out someone in need as I know what it feels like.

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@NoSelfSelf it is pointless to make me a problem when I'm 100% sure I'm not the problem. 

Hey I do own my mistakes when I see them. 

But not this time. 

 


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6 minutes ago, meta_male said:

@Preety_India btw, I grew up in a Christian cult and lost all friends as I left. I struggled with similar issues you do now, that's why I kept coming back to your post. Just trying to help out someone in need as I know what it feels like.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Christian cults are dangerous. I had a friend who was into one. 


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@Preety_India 100% not the problem is always a red flag even if im 100% right im sure im contributing at least 5-10% to the problem at least ?‍♂️ 

Even if im gonna give million dollars to people ill make problems ?


There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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Just now, NoSelfSelf said:

@Preety_India 100% not the problem is always a red flag even if im 100% right im sure im contributing at least 5-10% to the problem at least ?‍♂️ 

Even if im gonna give million dollars to people ill make problems ?

:Dkinda agree with you. 


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2 hours ago, Preety_India said:

Frankly I'm tired of you two guys @something_elseand @meta_male constantly posting unhelpful stuff on my thread and derailing it in such a way. 

Maybe there are other alternative solutions or theories out there that might be helpful to me that you guys just don't know about. Maybe other users know. 

I request you two to not further derail my thread by repeating the same stuff. 

 

Hello.Let me introduce myself.

Introverts get drained by communicating with other people unlike us extroverts.

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Just now, Zeroguy said:

Hello.Let me introduce myself.

Introverts get drained by communicating with other people unlike us extroverts.

Hello, maybe take your shit to that place than here. How about that? 

 

 


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7 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Hello, maybe take your shit to that place than here. How about that? 

 

 

You have zero authority and influence over things I will do,say etc.Same with evwryone else.

Answered your question.

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Just now, Zeroguy said:

You have zero authority and influence over things I will do,say etc.Same with evwryone else.

Answered your question.

Same back at you. 

 


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2 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Preety_India 100% not the problem is always a red flag even if im 100% right im sure im contributing at least 5-10% to the problem at least ?‍♂️ 

Even if im gonna give million dollars to people ill make problems ?

If you have that money give it to me.No problems what so ever.

I am greatful.

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3 hours ago, meta_male said:

@Preety_India alright. Didn't mean to offend you, though I can see it can seem that way. I wish you all the best.

You didn't do anything wrong bro, if you give advice the person has to be receptive to it, it's not on you how people take that. There's a difference between attacking someone and giving an uncomfortable truth 

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8 minutes ago, Consept said:

You didn't do anything wrong bro, if you give advice the person has to be receptive to it, it's not on you how people take that. There's a difference between attacking someone and giving an uncomfortable truth 

Sorry but I don't think you have the right to decide if something is a truth. 

You don't know me nor my situation. 

So can you please do a favor and keep your nonsense truths to yourself? 

 

 


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Just now, Preety_India said:

Sorry but I don't think you have the right to decide if something is a truth. 

You don't know me nor my situation. 

So can you please do a favor and keep your nonsense truths to yourself? 

 

 

Do you ever question why you get into conflict with a lot of people on here?

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Just now, Consept said:

Do you ever question why you get into conflict with a lot of people on here?

Because of people like you. 

Answered it.. 

Don't attack others and expect them to stay chill. 

Mind your language first.. 


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4 minutes ago, Consept said:

Do you ever question why you get into conflict with a lot of people on here?

Some warning points for her woul be nice.

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Just now, Consept said:

It's sad that you see that as an attack 

Because you are doing it. 

If you act authoritarian and act like you know better than me about myself and project your shit on me without even knowing my situation, it's certainly going to annoy me at some point. 

Is this hard to know? 

If you push something down my throat which I find untrue then obviously my reaction is going to be defensive. 

Try to empathize rather than judge.. Try to understand rather than assume. 

Then I won't have a problem. 

Why am I supposed to accept something that I see as a lie? 

You want to pass your assessment as a truth to me when I don't see it as a truth. On top of that I'm also supposed to be accept it. I see it as a violation of my integrity. 

Remember at the end of the day whatever whatever whatever you think of me is simply your opinion of me. It may be true. It may be not be true. 

Have the humility to not pass off your opinions as truths. 

If the very same thing happened to you you would be very pissed off if everyone had the wrong opinion of you.. 

 


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9 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

Some warning points for her woul be nice.

Mods this user is constantly instigating me on this forum. 

And he has been instigating me on this forum for years now. 

All he does is instigate. I'm fed up with dealing with this user. 

@Carl-Richard

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