Comparison between pornography and real sex!

[Someone here]

One of the biggest harms of pornography is that it twists your view on sexuality. It makes you think that sex feels like a trip to other world!!. When you actually have sex(if you did have sex then you know ) that sex isn't that good!. You will be shocked..it's boring and not that pleasurable in comparison to porn

!. In sex ..The physical pleasure that you will feel in your penis is far less than masturbation..beacuse when you masturbate you can control the tightness and the grip on your penis and the speed..in sex you have a certain vagina with a fixed tightness which is way more soft than your monkey fapping death grip!. In sex you probably gonna have one person to have sex with..unlike porn when you can have sex with 100 woman in one fucking hour!. Your partner is more likely not going to be that perfect plastic goddess !..her teeth are not going to be all white and semetric!. Also ..sex requires more physical effort ..your whole body is at work..whreas in masturbation ..just your hand and you dick .
I think sexual desire and lust is one of the most important and mysterious phenomena in nature . It feels so good but it's never enough..we are forever chasing that orgasm. In fact..there will never be such thing as enough ..even if you have one zillion orgasm with one zillion different women ..You will ask for more. It drains us, we know.. yet we can't help but desire it. Don't think that when you become old ass man in his 80's that you finally gonna be done with sex ..the lust in your mind will stay just the same ..you will just grow tired of chasing nothingness .
This is why I truly believe that overcoming sexual desire is nessciarly to achieving happiness in life..true happens is not in sex..its in overcoming this endless obsession .In fact ..sex brings misery if you have noticed..for some reason In the hell ..you feel kinda sad after sex which is the exact opposite of what you expected ..yet you keep falling at the same trap.!!
It remindes me of an experience they have done on rats..the rats push the button and they get a hit of heroin.. those rats keep pushing the button until they overdose and die . I don't want to sound weird..but sex can literally kill you if you don't control it!!!.
PS :by no means I overcame sex.. i understand all the things mentioned above..yet if you open my skull you will find nothing but sex in there.!
 

Edited April 18, 2022 by Someone here

[Preety_India]

Burn through karma instead of overcoming it. 

 

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

Burn through karma instead of overcoming it. 

 

What ? Did you even read the post lol ?

[bambi]

19 hours ago, Preety_India said:

Burn through karma instead of overcoming it. 

 

This is completely meaningless lol are you replying to the right post

[Gesundheit2]

Sex is about union. Porn is about fantasy.

[Zeroguy]

2 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Sex is about union. Porn is about fantasy.

You forgot emojis.

[Gesundheit2]

39 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

You forgot emojis.

Right ?‍???

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Sex is about union. Porn is about fantasy.

Sometimes fantasy can be better than the real thing. 

[hoodrow trillson]

22 hours ago, Someone here said:

When you actually have sex(if you did have sex then you know ) that sex isn't that good!. You will be shocked..it's boring and not that pleasurable in comparison to porn

 

That really sucks for you OP.

[T_i_m]

22 hours ago, Someone here said:

!. In sex ..The physical pleasure that you will feel in your penis is far less than masturbation..beacuse when you masturbate you can control the tightness and the grip on your penis and the speed..in sex you have a certain vagina with a fixed tightness which is way more soft than your monkey fapping death grip!
Also ..sex requires more physical effort ..your whole body is at work..whreas in masturbation ..just your hand and you dick .

 

 But you can't eat pussy when you are alone.

[Someone here]

14 minutes ago, T_i_m said:

 But you can't eat pussy when you are alone.

[Gianna]

If you watch more porn than have sex, the porn will seem better.

But if you have more sex than watch porn, the sex will be better. 
 

Physicality & fantasy both have something to offer. But I’ve found that the more sex you’ve had, the more exotic your sexual experiences become, the deeper and more penetrating the experience gets, and it’s in actuality (not fantasy). Fantasy can only go so deep. But it does have ‘breadth’— fucking multiple girls, etc. But you could also do that in person.

The question is, which experience leads to deeper and deeper levels of surrender (what it takes to orgasm), deeper levels of orgasm, and deeper levels of Union. Union with porn is low-consciousness. Especially where porn is at today. There’s not a lot of love in masturbation, that’s why it’s masturbation. 

[Tristan12]

I have a hard time seeing how you could possibly see porn as being better than real sex, even if you watch it a lot

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Gianna said:

If you watch more porn than have sex, the porn will seem better.

But if you have more sex than watch porn, the sex will be better. 
 

There are things which are better in porn and there are things which are better in real sex .

For example..in porn you have access to endless women .you can have sex (masturbation) with hundreds of partners in a matter of an hour .now you are not actually having sex with real people because it's just pixels on a screen ..but still you can't have this diversity in real sex where you probably gonna have sex with one partner or two ..

But on the other  hand as you pointed out porn lacks intimacy and love .and that can only be found in a real relationship with a real person. 

So as you can see both have pros and cons .

[Someone here]

53 minutes ago, Tristan12 said:

I have a hard time seeing how you could possibly see porn as being better than real sex, even if you watch it a lot

Read the OP again (if you haven't already)I explained with details why this the case .

[Tristan12]

@Someone here still, you’re just jerking off to a video on a screen, with no physical girl there with you. Maybe its different for other people but to me I don’t think I could ever see that as being better than real sex

[Someone here]

41 minutes ago, Tristan12 said:

@Someone here still, you’re just jerking off to a video on a screen, with no physical girl there with you. Maybe its different for other people but to me I don’t think I could ever see that as being better than real sex

I know. And I agree .as I said there is pros and cons to each one of them (porn and real sex). In porn it satisfies all your fantasies that you won't be able to satisfied in real sex .but then again the sex in porn is kinda robotic and lacks intimacy. 

[Gesundheit2]

Sex is a lot better than porn if you do it properly. There are things that make sex exciting such as the initiation/escalation, and the foreplay. If you create a good story for the sex for you and your partner, typically a playful story in the flow of the moment, then take you time with the foreplay; Man, oh, man! It's incredible! Try comic porn to get a taste of what I'm talking about. Regular porn lacks context and it sucks in this regard. There is no emotional connection or anything between the actors, the story-line and the acting often suck.

[Osaid]

24 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Try comic porn to get a taste of what I'm talking about. Regular porn lacks context and it sucks in this regard. There is no emotional connection or anything between the actors, the story-line and the acting often suck.

So true. Just having that context/intimacy can multiply the arousal into another level. It can actually be more arousing than looks imo. 

Edited April 20, 2022 by Osaid

[Someone here]

12 hours ago, Gesundheit2 said:

Sex is a lot better than porn if you do it properly. There are things that make sex exciting such as the initiation/escalation, and the foreplay. If you create a good story for the sex for you and your partner, typically a playful story in the flow of the moment, then take you time with the foreplay; Man, oh, man! It's incredible! Try comic porn to get a taste of what I'm talking about. Regular porn lacks context and it sucks in this regard. There is no emotional connection or anything between the actors, the story-line and the acting often suck.

Yes  porn sucks in that aspect . It lacks intimacy. Its like watching robots having sex .just in and out fucking and moans without any intimacy between the actors and actresses.