A diary for Keeping a track on my bpd emotions

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The other advice is that you will always be attracted to something you find familiar. 

This will always be a pattern. 

But your job is to simply break this pattern so it's not repeated. 

A syndrome is a term that refers to a disease or a disorder that has more than one identifying feature or symptom

 

I'll call my problem a syndrome. 

 

So what is this syndrome?

I'll call it Emotional Support Deficit Syndrome 

And Bonding deficiency syndrome. 

 

Also you're always hooking up with the wrong thing or it's validating you the wrong way. 

Stop looking for validation in the wrong places.. 

 

Much about managing bpd relationships is all about change in attitude and regulating emotions. Once the attitude is right, you avoid a whole bunch of nuisance. 

 

 

How to develop new patterns? 

New patterns will depend on how much you are able to dismiss old patterns successfully. 

First recognize the pattern and then dismiss. 

 

Relationship patterns/trends 

 

Don't be attracted to caring guys. Because majority of the time it's just bluff. 

 

 

 

 

Edited April 16, 2022 by Preety_India

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If a guy wants my attention really bad then take it as a bad sign instead of a good sign.. Change your thinking dynamic. 

Because the guy who wants your attention in any kind of way. 

Could be someone who is abnormal or disordered. 

Someone who simply pretends 

Someone who just wants to try me out 

Someone who is attention seeking - a sign of psychological disorder 

Someone who is too needy or desperate 

Someone who is into negging 

Someone who will lose interest quickly

Someone who never had sex or a girlfriend 

Someone who is just looking for drama and stimulation

Someone who feels Sexual for me without affection 

Someone who simply wants someone to talk to or a temporary gf 

Someone who doesn't want to put effort into intimacy, trust, vulnerability and harmony. 

Someone who doesn't take it slow 

Someone who is not dedicated or committed enough 

Someone who is 

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I feel like the universe was against me often with men

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(I made it clear that I'm not writing about you. When I'm not writing about you what's the deal.) 

 

Bpd non committed guys list (who to reject) 

If a guy wants my attention really bad then take it as a bad sign instead of a good sign.. Change your thinking dynamic. 

Because the guy who wants your attention in any kind of way. 

Could be someone who is abnormal or disordered. 

Someone who simply pretends 

Someone who just wants to try me out 

Someone who is attention seeking - a sign of psychological disorder 

Someone who is too needy or desperate 

Someone who is into negging 

Someone who will lose interest quickly

Someone who never had sex or a girlfriend 

Someone who is just looking for drama and stimulation

Someone who feels Sexual for me without affection 

 

Someone who simply wants someone to talk to or a temporary gf 

Someone who doesn't want to put effort into intimacy, trust, vulnerability and harmony. 

Someone who doesn't take it slow 

Someone who is not dedicated or committed enough 

Someone who is not genuinely interested but wants to pretend otherwise. 

Someone who doesn't even maintain a proper private communication 

 

 

Edited April 16, 2022 by Preety_India

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I don't wish u any ill will. 

 

Peace. 

 

Edited April 16, 2022 by Preety_India