How to attract a man/men?

[thisintegrated]

What happened to the forum-boyfriend you had?

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, thisintegrated said:

What happened to the forum-boyfriend you had?

No personal questions please if you can. 

 

[Hardkill]

I know that Leo said that he doesn't think that women learning game to attract men would work for them because of how differently men and women get attracted to one another in general. However, according to history, women like Cleopatra were the ones who invented seduction in order to achieve the level success, power, and resources, and men they desired. 

The best female strippers out there aren't often those who the best or hottest looking ones, but instead have the best game. Like successful male players, these women have great sexual charisma because they know how to seduce men verbally and with physical escalation.

 

 

Edited April 14, 2022 by Hardkill

[Preety_India]

@Hardkill but there's a key difference. 

It's seduction versus attraction. 

Seduction is trying to seduce. 

Attract is trying to be a good fit. 

Do you see the difference? 

I want to do things that attract a man/men.

I'm not trying to be a stripper.

 

 

[Hardkill]

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

@Hardkill but there's a key difference. 

It's seduction versus attraction. 

Seduction is trying to seduce. 

Attract is trying to be a good fit. 

Do you see the difference? 

I want to do things that attract a man/men.

I'm not trying to be a stripper.

 

 

Okay, but seduction is a major factor to getting and keeping the kind of guy you want. Besides, what Kezia Noble in that abovementioned vid I posted said was that those girls weren’t just stripteasing for the male customers with their sexy bodies or whispering very sexual things to them. Those girls also knew how to charm the guys with their low-key flirting, banter, wit, challenge them, confidence, and emotionally connecting with them. It’s as if they learned really well from someone like one of the RSD guys or from Kezia herself on how to seduce or attract the kind of person they are looking for by using cold approaching and dating techniques.

Edited April 15, 2022 by Hardkill

[Preety_India]

@Hardkill isn't this just sexual attraction

 

A relationship is all about sex?????? 

I don't think so. 

I want to attract a man emotionally, morally and mentally. That's the main focus. 

Sex is obvious and I don't particularly lack in that department. 

Lots of men are attracted to me sexually. That's why I'm not looking for sexual attraction. 

But mental and emotional attraction. 

I want to be able to attract and keep a man mentally and emotionally. 

Most men want sex with me (I mean the men who are interested in me, but I'm looking for more) 

Sex alone is not satisfying to me. 

 

[Hardkill]

1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

@Hardkill isn't this just sexual attraction

 

A relationship is all about sex?????? 

I don't think so. 

I want to attract a man emotionally, morally and mentally. That's the main focus. 

Sex is obvious and I don't particularly lack in that department. 

Lots of men are attracted to me sexually. That's why I'm not looking for sexual attraction. 

But mental and emotional attraction. 

I want to be able to attract and keep a man mentally and emotionally. 

Most men want sex with me (I mean the men who are interested in me, but I'm looking for more) 

Sex alone is not satisfying to me. 

 

No, I get that, but just because you don’t have to do much as a girl to sex from anybody doesn’t mean that you know how to seduce or attract them a guy enough to want to still be with you for the long haul. If you are good at really turning a guy on sexually, project confidence, have wit, know how to tease him, screen him, be really good at connecting with a guy emotionally in a way that most girls may not be able to, know how to be cooperative with him, submissive to his primal desires, are good enough at sex and kissing, then the kind of good man that you truly desire and match with will more than likely want to stay with you for a long time.

This is what happens when an female escort or stripper has such tight game. A lot of the guys they were with get so attracted to them that they feel like they have to see those same girls over and over and over again. Now, if you have both the ability to seduce/attract and the kinds of looks that he’s really into then that kind of good man you really want will end up falling in love with you.

Btw, checkout dating gurus on Youtube such as Mr. Locario and Rebecca Lynn Pope on how attract and keep the guy you want. They both are definitely legit and really tell it like it is when it comes dating, sex, and romance. 

Edited April 15, 2022 by Hardkill

[Leo Gura]

Don't overcomplicate it. Just be more social and you will meet cool guys.

[Preety_India]

Just adding it here. 

 

Might be different for other guys, but for me, the time a girl can really get me under her spell is when I believe she is a help and not a hinderance to my other goals in life. If a girl can see in me my dreams, and aspirations and gets excited about them, I want to just have them around all the time. Sexual attractiveness is important, but if your man is dating you at all, that means he is already attracted to you son don't worry about that.

Other than that, be sweet, be kind, but also have clearly defined boundaries and don't let him walk all over to you. Be submissive but make him work for it a little. If it's too easy it is sometimes boring. Also be aware that guys are sensitive on the inside no matter how little they may show it. Words really do affect guys and what you say can affect him.

Lastly, and probably most importantly, remember that not everything that goes wrong in a relationship is not necessarily your fault. It is indeed very important to take responsibility in a relationship, but there are some things you just can't control. Counterintuitively, the best mindset in general in a relationship is to not be in need of a relationship. Learn to be content on your own and don't need your guy. Love like you have never been hurt, but be able and willing to let go of him when that is the only option. Love yourself no matter what. Don't let your man's opinion of you change the only opinion that truly matters: your own. This will be the most attractive to any guy.