Biases of females

[Antor8188]

@Leo Gura if you are handsome it’s considered flirting if you are ugly it’s considered harassment what do you think of this statement? Do you think women have double standards?

[Leo Gura]

Of course.

But "handsome" is super relative. It's not about being handsome, it's about whether she is attracted.

[puporing]

I guess if you keep 'flirting' when she's obviously not into it then yeah it's turning into 'harassment'. It's usually fine if you're just doing it to test the waters and generally okay at reading social cues.

[Preety_India]

You can't control how someone is attracted to you. Also you can't blame them for not being attracted to you. 

Edited March 30, 2022 by Preety_India

[Gesundheit2]

Not always the case, but it happens, yes.

[Pavement]

3 hours ago, Antor8188 said:

if you are handsome it’s considered flirting if you are ugly it’s considered harassment what do you think of this statement? Do you think women have double standards?

And if an girl you perceive as ugly flirts with you then you reject her and if a pretty one flirts with you you’ll be attracted. 

the only different is that for a man there is no fear that the girl he’s rejected/not attracted to will harm him or creep on him 

Edited March 30, 2022 by Pavement

[something_else]

Can I make a formal request to insta-ban anyone who refers to girls as 'Females'

Edited March 30, 2022 by something_else

[LordFall]

3 hours ago, something_else said:

Can I make a formal request to insta-ban anyone who refers to girls are 'Females'

Why? Depends how you mean it but to me the term female is very sacred and an ultimate compliment.

As a man the term girl implies a human connection, which is great but I mean that's the same connection we all share so cool but not particularly special.

But the male to female connection is very different. As a human male females are basically your other half, best friend, future and potential carriers of your genes. They're elevated in importance beyond what any male could offer you. 

I mean the incels probably don't mean it like that but to me the term female just means ?

10 hours ago, Antor8188 said:

@Leo Gura if you are handsome it’s considered flirting if you are ugly it’s considered harassment what do you think of this statement? Do you think women have double standards?

You're looking at it the wrong way. It's like sales, if someone tries to sell you something you want you appreciate it and if it's a useless thing you're annoyed. 

Flirting is basically just the act of letting a girl know you're interested in her. Physical looks help but there's many ways to be valuable as a man that will make her appreciate that flirting attempt. 

IMO it helps if you make it very down to the basics what value do you offer women in general. Look at it like caveman days(the world is just as brutal today mate) if she sticks with you is she better or worse off? If she's clearly better off than flirting is just the act of letting her know that. If she won't then your flirting is you trying to SCAM and ENDANGER her and she should be creeped out/concerned. 

[Gesundheit2]

This can also happen passively. You don't necessarily have to be hitting on the woman. Just because she doesn't like your appearance or personality or whatever, she will likely act accordingly. I guess it's an instinctual thing. This can happen with men but less likely, ime.