Gearing Up To Go To Club Friday

[Thought Art]

Now that I have more of a foundation in my life it’s time to begin pickup. I’ve recently downloaded tinder but haven’t gotten any matches as I don’t have any good photos now that I’ve decided to shave my head as I am balding and just decided to commit. I consider myself handsome but I don’t know if without hair I’ll get many matches. So far it hasn’t been the case… I have a short out of shape friend who literally does amazing on Tinder. I’ll work on it.

writing this here because I wanna make another post before and after I go out. I think I am better off developing my social skills and pickup game. I’m not a fan of clubs and loud music but I think it’s time I get out and meet some girls. 
 

will post a before and after update.

I plan on buying The Hot Seat program, as well as reviewing Leo’s 3 part series over the coming weeks and month.

Edited March 29, 2022 by Thought Art

[something_else]

Nice! Clubs can be scary but trust me you’re gonna have some great times.

Good luck

[aurum]

@Thought Art

Awesome. Have you signed The Pickup Contract?

This is a cool exercise I’ve been doing lately whenever I start a new endeavor that feels maybe a little out of my comfort zone.

Essentially you write up a contract with the universe where you commit to experiencing ALL known potential downsides and upsides you can think of in your new project.

So something like, “I, ThoughtArt, commit to at least 500 rejections, looking like a fool in front of X person(s), low sleep, blowing interactions at the last minute, fights with wings, heartbreak, etc. I also commit to great sex, improving my social skills, becoming a more attractive man, etc”.

You can make The Contract as long as you want and include whatever feels relevant. The point is to identify any resistance you have and consciously work through it, while also focusing on the upsides and getting excited about it.

Combine those two and you can manifest pretty much anything.

If you can’t commit to a potential downside because it seems too painful, that’s alright. Notice that. What’s that about?

Of course if a downside does not occur, it’s not like you have to make it happen. It’s about YOUR resistance, not what will happen “in reality”.

And when a downside does come, you will be less reactive because, well duh. You knew this was coming. You signed up for this. You chose it.

[Bob Seeker]

Just ditch tinder. Stupid unless you are very good looking. You’re not trying to get laid. You are trying to get laid from having game. No magic pills.

avoid the RSD mentality. Their game is good but their advice is riddled with Low consciousness shit. Do it the way Leo recommends. His advice will help you avoid issues.

prioritize doing it authentically. Don’t try to be like anyone else but your chill ass self if you can find it

Edited March 29, 2022 by Bob Seeker

[Thought Art]

@aurum I will do that! Thanks

@Bob Seeker I want to see the in game footage. I like RSD, I’ll use my own moral compass 

[Bob Seeker]

@Thought Art good idea. But it goes beyond morals and into mentality. I felt like I was brainwashed a bit by their stuff and it caused me problems. I recommend Leo’s videos before consuming RSD so you can see the difference.

[Thought Art]

I used to get a tonne if matches before I was bald. Now I get 0

[Ulax]

@Thought Art Good luck dude.

3 minutes ago, Bob Seeker said:

@Thought Art good idea. But it goes beyond morals and into mentality. I felt like I was brainwashed a bit by their stuff and it caused me problems. I recommend Leo’s videos before consuming RSD so you can see the difference.

Ye I agree with @Bob Seeker. RSD stuff still has a lot of value tho imo.

[Thought Art]

Update: was super sick all last week

Went on date last night. Lessons:

1. I need better small chat

2. I have to be attracted to the person or else I will just play a friend card in them

3. no drinking or substances cuz i don’t drink and it makes me feel weird 

4. loosen up and dance. We went to a place to dance and I got too in my head

5. get more experience 

6. accept my bald head and that I’m not 19 anymore 

7. accept rejection without it leaking beyond its actual reach

8. love myself despite all my challenges in this domain of life.

Edited April 10, 2022 by Thought Art