This girl I met through a party wants to go on a date with me. She told me she broke up from her 3 year old relationship. It will be our first real date and I was wondering how to handle this situation. In the past, during different dates, I caught myself ending up as a therapist for the girl. I don’t want that to happen but at the same time I also don’t want to be OCD about it. What topics to talk about and avoid?