Getting phone numbers on streets for a few months solid in Seoul

[charlie cho]

Got very few results, but did get a result, so I didn't stop doing this 

Going deep into it, I met one expert pick up guy getting phone numbers left and right, being really really really natural. I never thought one could do this in East Asia (Japan, China, and Korea) with so much poise and naturalness. I thought we had to be more formal, politically correct, don't be too crazy, especially in Seoul. Just yesterday, I met that expert because I know one virgin who was better than me at getting numbers and setting dates because he learnt from that expert. Just a month ago the virgin complained and moaned about his life with me, and now he's better than me in the area. 

Lol. I just asked the expert how to learn these things and he scolded me for trying to "learn" pick up. He just told me to look for encouragement but not information. 

Anyway, he just told me, the reason I'm not as adept to pick up is simple. (he's 37 years old, and his grooming, talking.. whatever... etc. is spot on) I don't practice enough, and I don't think enough about the way I practiced. Practice by focusing on one thing. Holding (getting the attention), talking.

Like the way he holds attention from girls on the street. The length of his conversation, and way he behaves with the girls on the street, the stuff he says is just much more different than me and normal guys. 

Funny thing is, he never went to a club, and so I brang him to a club yesterday, and he didn't talk at all there. It was odd. The three of us didn't like drinking, but the two of us except for the expert liked to dance, so maybe he didn't feel at ease there. 

Anyway, I realized from him, that I needed to hold the attention, then talked my way (with amusement) at the same time. You can't miss one of them during the interaction. Expressing what you want from the girl like bullet points fast, then going for amusement is important I think. Being fun is important. And that is through talking. It don't matter if you're in front of a bathroom, or a bookstore, or a street at night. If your speech is amusing and you can hold, she won't just ignore....  and when she realizes you held her attention while telling her what you want from her, she just gives you the phone number or the date. 

It was intriguing, and I learnt a lot yesterday. Seeing a virgin do way better than me in pick up, and seeing that expert behave in an alien place, it was amusing. 

On the train station, I just ordered the virgin to go pick up a girl who was physically fit and had nice legs, just got that number right away, with a solid interaction while I struggle to hold attention from any girl. 

Edited March 23, 2022 by charlie cho

[Tudo]

Yes, many virgins can have a really nice performance with girls. 

7 hours ago, charlie cho said:

I never thought one could do this in East Asia (Japan, China, and Korea) with so much poise and naturalness. 

Well, I don't think Korean culture is closed minded as Japanese and Chinese tbh.