Am I gay

[BuddhistLover]

Ok so I am a man, and so I have been confused about my sexuality for the longest time, and please for the love of humans sum this stuff up for me. Thank you so much, I owe you a debt of gratitude forever.

So I was browsing the porn sites to figure out my sexuality and I looked at vaginas, and my they seemed kind of gross to me, and didn't really turn me on, then I saw a dick come into the picture, and my mind was like. That's kind of cute, it kind of turns me on. 

Please tell me what sexuality I am from this info: Gay, Straight, Bisexual?

 

P.S. I'm sorry if I grossed you out, or took time out of your day, I am literally just in need of someone logical help me solve this issue, because I am way too emotional to be logical. 

Edited March 23, 2022 by BuddhistLover

[Preety_India]

You would only come to know when you have sex with either a male or female. 

If you're orgasming to a male and having sex with him then yes, homosexual. 

If you're horny with a woman as well as a man then you're bisexual. 

If you're horny with a woman and have sex with her but can't do that with a man or don't feel horny around him then you are straight. 

You cannot rely on mental things to know for sure because mentally we can be attracted to anything in the moment. 

But try it out in real life and soon you'll know your sexual pattern. 

Direct experience is always the best indicator and teacher, zero confusion. 

 

Till then you will keep toying with this idea but never know the truth. 

 

[puporing]

Sexuality is a spectrum/web of complexities. I don't view it as black and white usually and it also can evolve throughout your life. Just stay open to the possibilities and don't shame yourself for having certain feelings that may be deemed 'outliers', and stay open to exploring your curiosities. 

[BuddhistLover]

@Preety_India ok thanks, I'll give it a go.

[Sucuk Ekmek]

4 hours ago, BuddhistLover said:

Ok so I am a man, and so I have been confused about my sexuality for the longest time, and please for the love of humans sum this stuff up for me. Thank you so much, I owe you a debt of gratitude forever.

So I was browsing the porn sites to figure out my sexuality and I looked at vaginas, and my they seemed kind of gross to me, and didn't really turn me on, then I saw a dick come into the picture, and my mind was like. That's kind of cute, it kind of turns me on. 

Please tell me what sexuality I am from this info: Gay, Straight, Bisexual?

 

P.S. I'm sorry if I grossed you out, or took time out of your day, I am literally just in need of someone logical help me solve this issue, because I am way too emotional to be logical. 

Look for  the actual experience, pixels are not the real thing. Porn sites doesn't care for higher virtues. Listen to your body in actual daily situations. You will know what to do. 

[Razard86]

Wow everyone gave such great advice. Such a wonderful community. 

[Yarco]

I'm straight and I think both male and female genitalia are pretty gross, so consider that as a possibility. That the sweaty part of your body kept unaired in your pants all day that you also piss out of might just be gross in general.

I guess dicks are a little less gross because it's all external with less folds to collect gross stuff. But I dont really have a desire to put my mouth on either

[Terell Kirby]

Probably

[BuddhistLover]

Thanks for the posts everyone, I feel grateful to be apart of such of such a loving and accepting community. 

[Leo Gura]

Gay

Vaginas look amazing when you are straight and dicks your mind doesn't even register.

[Tristan12]

16 hours ago, Yarco said:

I'm straight and I think both male and female genitalia are pretty gross, so consider that as a possibility. That the sweaty part of your body kept unaired in your pants all day that you also piss out of might just be gross in general.

I guess dicks are a little less gross because it's all external with less folds to collect gross stuff. But I dont really have a desire to put my mouth on either

I’m straight and I agree. Vaginas feel good but they aren't much to look at in my opinion lol. To me dicks look physically less ugly most of the time but i'm not sexually attracted to them at all

[Ghost]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Gay

Vaginas look amazing when you are straight and dicks your mind doesn't even register.

I disagree. Most straight women don't get excited about dicks either just by looking at them.

Ask gynaecologist how much he gets excited by vaginas alone.

Porn can be sadly very misleading, visually there are stuff which are more pleasing on screen than experiencing it in real life. And vica versa: no porn will make you experience how good pussy feels

[Thought Art]

Like what you like

[Juan]

On 3/23/2022 at 1:33 AM, BuddhistLover said:

Ok so I am a man, and so I have been confused about my sexuality for the longest time, and please for the love of humans sum this stuff up for me. Thank you so much, I owe you a debt of gratitude forever.

So I was browsing the porn sites to figure out my sexuality and I looked at vaginas, and my they seemed kind of gross to me, and didn't really turn me on, then I saw a dick come into the picture, and my mind was like. That's kind of cute, it kind of turns me on. 

Please tell me what sexuality I am from this info: Gay, Straight, Bisexual?

 

P.S. I'm sorry if I grossed you out, or took time out of your day, I am literally just in need of someone logical help me solve this issue, because I am way too emotional to be logical. 

@BuddhistLover I can understand how you feel brother, I thought I was straight for most of my life. I discovered I am bisexual on 2018 (I was 22) by questioning myself after one relationship, I was feeling that something was missing because my past relationships back then felt a bit “unsatisfied at times or something was missing”, until I questioned if I was actually gay or bisexual. 
 

After some exploration that year, sure I can confirm I am bisexual after sleep with a man, I think experience is king ? here so, if you have doubt, to make sure, sleep with a man or a woman if you doubt yourself (it is possible also to not connect with the right person at first so be patience, at least for me it was very instant with the first guy I sleep with and it was a “aha! So this is what’s up then” moment hehe).
 

Because also looking by porn, I actually never if not mostly never search for gay porn, maybe trans people at times, but you actually aren’t sure enough until you have the experience. With that example sayed, to my understanding and experience, it seems that my % towards women is more than men, I still have to work alot more on the male side. Have the experience is what I better suggest. ???

Edited March 24, 2022 by Juan

[Michael Jackson]

You are gay. And that's perfectly fine.

[thisintegrated]

Yes, you're gay AF my dude.