I don't hate Indians, let's be clear about that at the get go.  But I'm sick of Indian communities wherever I go. There are legitimate reasons for this.  They are extra extra smart and meanwhile there's nothing wrong with being smart, but this attitude of always topping others, hyper competitiveness and this oversmart mentality and behavior causes them to become hard nosed and judgmental and reject anything that doesn't fit their success doctrine in life. It feels very reductive, hurtful.  Most Indians would actually agree with the Right Wing US mentality if you asked them.  I don't see any empathetic understanding in Indians.  If you asked a regular Indian guy what does he think of a single mother looking to date then his immediate response would be that she is baggage and that it's all her fault that she chose the wrong person or didn't have better judgement. Now I'm not saying that all Indians are this way but this is just an example of their judgemental nature of the overall social psyche of Indian communities.