The love that I'm seeking can also be found within me

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Yes

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Children are beautiful. Children are innocent. 

Children are from God. 

 

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I was never loved by my parents. I was treated like an unwanted child

 

 

No child is unwanted. 

It's only our biases that are unwanted. 

 

 

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I liked this 

Without a doubt managing self-talk, cutting out everything negative about yourself, minimize the need for self-criticism/judgment, which also stretches to the criticism of others. Often we criticise others to indirectly meet a need to lift ourselves. Know when you judge, and try not to. 

 

Even smallest and seemingly benign self directed comment like thinking "cluts" when dropping something. 

 

Don't. 

 

When seeing yourself in a mirror, there should be zero judgment. The mirror is just a reflection, make it functional.

 

Be very careful what you say to yourself, because you're listning. 

 

The second thing I'd say to make sure that you're being authentic. If you're not allowing your authentic self to hsibe through, then you are literally faking life. Be authentic as much as possible, minimize personas/façades.

Feelin fake is detrimental to self-esteem. Authenticity allows for confidence in self, and helps bringing a stronger positive self-image. 

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You have to heal that inner child. 

You have to find healing not judgement. 

 

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I don't wish to deal with people who are cold to me. That doesn't serve my purpose. 

Be around supportive people. It's a huge boost to self esteem. 

Learn to cut out people who don't serve your purpose. Brutal truth. 

 

Its not about self love. It's simply about cultivating general love within yourself. This love will then water the plants of your body and mind. 

 

 

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Some time ago I wrote this for a user here called Pepper. I can feel the weight of the words. 

 

Miss Pepper

I don't wish to deal with people who are cold to me. That doesn't serve my purpose. So I eventually cut them off. You need drastic measures to feel better

 

Be around supportive people. It's a huge boost to self esteem. 

Learn to cut out people who don't serve your purpose. Brutal truth. 

Its not about self love. It's simply about cultivating general love within yourself. This love will then water the plants of your body and mind. 

You're a beautiful soul Ms Pepper. The only thing is you are horribly misguided. 

And that's not your fault. You haven't been prepared for your best role and best potential. This could be the society you live in that simply doesn't try to bring out the best potential from you and rather sabotages who you truly are

 

I say seek answers within you Ms Pepper and you will find that you deserve so much more than what you have been given. 

There is deep deep love to be found Ms Pepper and that love is within you. 

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A true source doesn't disappear 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

A true source doesn't disappear

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

 

 

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A true source doesn't disappear 

 

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

A true source doesn't disappear

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

 

A true source doesn't disappear 

 

 

 

 

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I myself Subconsciously put an end to it. 

But let's see if there is any understanding in the future 

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I don't hate Indians, let's be clear about that at the get go. 

But I'm sick of Indian communities wherever I go. There are legitimate reasons for this. 

They are extra extra smart and meanwhile there's nothing wrong with being smart, but this attitude of always topping others, hyper competitiveness and this oversmart mentality and behavior causes them to become hard nosed and judgmental and reject anything that doesn't fit their success doctrine in life. It feels very reductive, hurtful. 

Most Indians would actually agree with the Right Wing US mentality if you asked them. 

I don't see any empathetic understanding in Indians. 

If you asked a regular Indian guy what does he think of a single mother looking to date then his immediate response would be that she is baggage and that it's all her fault that she chose the wrong person or didn't have better judgement. Now I'm not saying that all Indians are this way but this is just an example of their judgemental nature of the overall social psyche of Indian communities. 

 

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Inner self healing - another segment. Organic healing. Giga healing.