Can Spiritual work heal my Anger Issues?

[Preety_India]

@Razard86 well I don't need to. I'm sorry. If there is something that has always been toxic to my health, I need not integrate it so your advice is of little to use to me, even downright abusive and dangerous. 

Should I start integrating rapists too? 

I'm doing what's best for me so spare me your advice. I resist it because it has never worked for me. 

Now I don't Want another lecture on why I should not hate things. 

 

[Raze]

Try self therapy by Jay Earely

 

https://www.shinzen.org/store/enlightened-rage/

[Razard86]

4 hours ago, Preety_India said:

@Razard86 well I don't need to. I'm sorry. If there is something that has always been toxic to my health, I need not integrate it so your advice is of little to use to me, even downright abusive and dangerous. 

Should I start integrating rapists too? 

I'm doing what's best for me so spare me your advice. I resist it because it has never worked for me. 

Now I don't Want another lecture on why I should not hate things. 

 

I'm not saying you integrate rapists, I'm saying you give yourself permission to heal. All past events we experience are storied in our mind as thoughts and in our body as emotion. If you carry the events you did not like as a burden that you must endure then you will continue to experience it until you release it. It's fine if you want to as its your choice. The people who do things to us in the past can move on about their day and not even notice the pain they inflict. Whereas we can hold onto it and suffer it. As long as we choose to hold on to it suffer it we will. This is what it means to be in Hell because all Hell is= suffering. 

Leo did a video that explains what the Devil is. The irony people don't understand is, as the Devil you place yourself in Hell and punish yourself with suffering. If it gets bad enough you start to expand that Hell and try to draw others in it. Only you have the power to free yourself, you are far stronger than you realize.

[Preety_India]

@Razard86 sometimes memory is necessary for future safety, it programs us in advance against similar dangers and threats 

[SOUL]

6 hours ago, Razard86 said:

Yes. Only from our selfishness do we think something is good or bad. Think about it. Love is acceptance. Anything you love you desire for it to exist. Hatred is the denial of existence. For something to exist that God created it, it would have to exist because God loves it. So infinity loves all of creation. There is no value, that is a creation of a finite self that has needs, wants/desires. Based on the preference of that finite self good/bad exists, valuable and not valuable exists. So obviously from a finite perspective events are either negative or positive. This is one of the toughest concepts to grip, and even if you can grip it intellectually it is even harder to grip it emotionally.

You got caught in the trap of your imagination.

I didn't say the words 'good and bad', why did you bring them up? Because it seems you are contending with your imagination and not having a discussion with me. Consider this when talking with others so you can understand them for what they are saying and won't find yourself talking past them or injecting in things not being said.

I thought there was no separation between infinite and finite? At least that is what you communicated to me in another thread. Why the different 'rules' for infinite and finite? If 'god' loves creation does 'god' also fear and hate it? If there is no value in the infinite why would 'god' value creation and have love for it but not the others?

You didn't respond to the other questions, any particular reason?

"Let me also ask if you believe everybody chose their life, maybe even before they were born, and everything that happens to them?

Do you believe the 'law of attraction'? That people can and do bring everything that happens to them into their life?"

 

[SOUL]

@Preety_India Always remember how much I appreciate and care about you...if you are going to remember something.

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