Question for leo Is it possinle to love and be in a relishinshp when you are dettache

[Ash55]

is it actually possible to be totally detached from the person you love, and yet have a relationship with her i had an argument with a freind about a girl i like and how i can actually love her in a detached way but tbh am not sure if that is possible so what do you think leo and you guys.

i can totally see inside me how love and attachment are totally different things is that not true ?

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, Ash55 said:

is it actually possible to be totally detached from the person you love

In practice no. You're gonna get attached. Just do it more consciously than most people.

[Ash55]

@Leo Gura  thank you thank you leo

Does that  mean that you can be more detached than the average human but not 100% detached ? lol

I have one more question for you, and if i achieved emotional mastery, how my intimate relationship would look like

And thank you leo for everything you did for us

 

Edited March 17, 2022 by Ash55

[Leo Gura]

18 hours ago, Ash55 said:

Does that  mean that you can be more detached than the average human but not 100% detached ? lol

If you were 100% detached there would be no need for the relationship.

The point is not get attached in unhealthy, toxic, or dysfunctional ways.

If your cat of 15 years die, obviously you will be sad about it. This is normal. Experience the sadness consciously and use it as part of your spiritual work.

18 hours ago, Ash55 said:

I have one more question for you, and if i achieved emotional mastery, how my intimate relationship would look like

There is no such thing as "achieving emotional mastery". You just get a little better at handling and feeling emotions.

This is a complex question which I can't really go into here.

[Superfluo]

@Leo Gura

Are you still planning to do a video on high consciousness relationships?

[Leo Gura]

Yes

[Ash55]

12 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

There is no such thing as "achieving emotional mastery". You just get a little better at handling and feeling emotions.

This is a complex question which I can't really go into here.

 

But leo lol
i get your point
thankkk youuuu for your answer