Masturbating/porn while in relationships?

[Roy]

2 hours ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Bruh, just blast one every week/month! It's a champagne of victory!

Hah, I'd rather die.

In a relationship I need sex at least every other day. When single, a little less often.

[Roy]

Also I don't need porn either or see it as necessary, as some people are bringing up the topic in the thread.

I view porn kind of like icing, and getting off like a cupcake.

Cupcakes are good on their own, you can have one by itself with nothing on it and it's satisfying. However once in a while having a cupcake with some icing can be pretty great too.

Icing is tasty. You could eat it by itself if you wanted, but it's very rich and that isn't really what it's for. Icing is supposed to add to the cupcake, not replace it. If you ate only icing you'd get sick pretty quickly.

I hope you understand this analogy. Hmmmmmm............. now I kinda want a cupcake (a real one )!

 

[Ulax]

I'd read this book:

Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

[StarStruck]

It is a shit test, she is insecure so she wants to find out if you are secure and she is poking holes to how you react. How you react is key. You could flip the script and act like she is weird instead of you being weird. Or you could turn the situation into something funny or charm her and make her feel good when she is deep inside insecure. Defeat her with love.