How do I come off as non-needy?

[Raze]

On 3/8/2022 at 9:16 PM, integration journey said:

I have been noticing  myself having people pleasing tendencies which relate to my shadow.. 

I love approaching but it feels like I need or want something from her that I don't currently have. I hate that feeling 

I have a lot of joy inside my heart and would love to share that with someone though, that is why I want to have a relationship.

Any tips on coming off as non needy with her?

Thanks!

 

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