Night Game - What are good openers?

[Leo Gura]

12 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

how do you deal with (chronic) fatigue when going out?

do you use modafinil or caffeine? 

I just get good rest/sleep, and I work less.

[PurpleTree]

15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I just get good rest/sleep, and I work less.

never use the modafinil when going out?

i've used it before.

actually the night i took it i did take a woman home but i was also drinking.

Edited March 5, 2022 by PurpleTree

[ValiantSalvatore]

@Leo Gura Wow I'd thought this was still in line and a nice guy move or at least bold and edgy I said it like I was curious and happy. Whatever I just won't do it. 

Edited March 5, 2022 by ValiantSalvatore

[aurum]

15 hours ago, ValiantSalvatore said:

• Who do you think is the stronger gender men or women?
• Who cheats more men or women?
• Who are better liars men or women?
• Who is more dominant in relationships men or women?
• Would you rather not have sex for one year or not use your phone for one year?
• Do strong men still exist?

Lol these all sound so cringy to me.

For me, the simpler an opener is, the better. I don’t want to have to think about it at all.

Even just a “hey!” Or “hey, who are you?” is good enough in a loud night club. I’ve probably used those two “lines” more than anything else combined.

Alternatively, don’t even say anything. You can just give a high five, do Hand of God, point, or some other non-threatening physical move.

Speed in pickup is king. You generally have 1-3 seconds often to approach a girl if you want it to go well. Anything longer than that tends to come off as contrived and “off”. And it is “off”, because you’re hesitating and falling out of flow.

Stay in flow. Just say something.

Of course, if you can spontaneously come up with a clever or elaborate opener, great. Go ahead and use it. But for me, thinking about that just puts me in my head. I’d rather jump out the plane first and then worry about pulling the parachute.

15 hours ago, ValiantSalvatore said:

• How come most men are scared of leading are women the better leaders?
• What are your thoughts about feminine guys do they turn you on?
• Would you ever date a serial killer?
• Pick 3 people in the club who would you fuck, kill or marry?
• What is a drink no man should ever order?
• Would you attend a gay marriage?
• I like your black dress.
• I like XXX, what was the worst compliment you ever received?
• What do you think about unsocial guys?

 

These aren’t bad questions, but I’d save them for later in the conversation. It’s way too much for an opener. An opener is just meant to break the ice, not create a deep connection per say. 

Edited March 6, 2022 by aurum

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, PurpleTree said:

never use the modafinil when going out?

I have a long time ago ocassionally, but not recently.

Mondafinil doesn't really solve chronic fatigue. It's a temporary boost.

To game well I have to be well-rested. I can't game when I am too tired or sleepy. My state is just too off.

[Yali]

@Leo Gura How often do you use MODA nowadays?

 

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Yali said:

@Leo Gura How often do you use MODA nowadays?

I don't use it at all.

[Yali]

@Leo Gura And why is that? Especially as someone who deals with fatigue?

 Some people swear by it.

 

Edited March 6, 2022 by Yali

[Leo Gura]

12 minutes ago, Yali said:

@Leo Gura And why is that? Especially as someone who deals with fatigue?

 Some people swear by it.

Like I said, it is not a sustainable solution to chronic fatigue.

[PurpleTree]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I can't game when I am too tired or sleepy. My state is just too off.

me neither but i'm too tired way too often.

for example yesterday i went out and it was fun, talked to a lot of women, made out etc.

went out tonight again but was too tired and not feeling it at all, also wasn't fun tonight really. it was ok-ish

[Leo Gura]

29 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

me neither but i'm too tired way too often.

for example yesterday i went out and it was fun, talked to a lot of women, made out etc.

went out tonight again but was too tired and not feeling it at all, also wasn't fun tonight really. it was ok-ish

Well, I have struggled with chronic fatigue a lot. Yeah, it definitely will hold back your game, but not just your game, your whole life.

If I didn't have chronic fatigue I would get laid WAY more. I would also earn millions more. Tough shit. Life requires energy.

[cle103]

21 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

1) Approaching and getting blown out

2) Shit talking with wings

3) Dancing & listening to good music

4) DMT

5) Going out consistently, building up momentum

6) Getting present and enjoying the environment, getting very calm in my body

7) Not thinking. Stop planning your approaches, stop thinking about "What am I going to say?"

8) Using funny, obnoxious, and absurd lines like: "Hi, I'm a douche bag. You should meet me." And in general just inventing new funny things to say to girls.

Good stuff, ty! Never tried #4 though...

20-30 ug LSD is also great for partying in general.

[mojsterr]

"Are you a pony, because hey"

 

OR

 

 

 

Either you get a slap on the face immediately, or she starts laughing.

Edited March 8, 2022 by mojsterr

[EyolfTheWolf]

You get high on life  

I do love to drink a Matcha before I go out though tbh 

[Javfly33]

On 6/3/2022 at 7:48 PM, cle103 said:

Good stuff, ty! Never tried #4 though...

20-30 ug LSD is also great for partying in general.

Microdoses of Lsd are horrible for pickup, especially nightgame, I can say It from personal experience... 

[Tudo]

On 05/03/2022 at 1:20 PM, Leo Gura said:

Don't waste time trying to invent clever openers. The opener is irrelevant.

"Hey! Stop. I wanted to meet you real quick. What's your name?" is basically your universal opener.

The words of your opener is not what gets you the girl.

Observational openers tend to work best. For example: "Hey, girl in the black dress. I wanted to meet you real quick."

Nice. 

[RMQualtrough]

"Hey, how you doing?"

"Hey what you drinking?" (While queueing at the bar and they got something like those interesting looking pink spirits).

Srs.

[Leo Gura]

34 minutes ago, RMQualtrough said:

"Hey what you drinking?"

Don't ask her unless you actually care.

Cut the shit and be genuine about why you are talking to here. Don't invent excuses to talk to a girl, own your desire for her. Become the kind of guy who needs no excuse.

"I just saw you and felt attracted." No other justification necessary.

Work on making your game as genuine as possible.

[RMQualtrough]

34 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't ask her unless you actually care.

Cut the shit and be genuine about why you are talking to here. Don't invent excuses to talk to a girl, own your desire for her. Become the kind of guy who needs no excuse.

"I just saw you and felt attracted." No other justification necessary.

Work on making your game as genuine as possible.

Idno bro it strikes up good conversations for me. I agree though.

[RMQualtrough]

I just got with some randoms. I'm tipsy.