I relapsed to porn

[Raze]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You guys and this no fap stuff.

Sigh....

There is plenty of evidence porn is bad for you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

 

[Javfly33]

33 minutes ago, Yarco said:

@Someone here 

When you watch porn you're literally cucking yourself, because you're watching another man take a woman that you find desirable.

 

Its even worse. @Leo Gura and me (i Dont know about others in the forum) have publicly declared to fantasize of being the Girl in the actual fucking. Thats a twisted turn for sure ??I wonder if thats worse than being a cuck by your definition. Although by your definition i think cuck IS not the correct Word. Because the Girl in the video is not your gf or wife. I think voyeur is a more correct Word.

[BipolarGrowth]

Maybe the neuroticism brought about by no fap and no porn is worse than fapping and porn? 

[Carl-Richard]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

There is plenty of evidence porn is bad for you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

How bad?

[Lyubov]

1 hour ago, Aleister Crowleyy said:

@Leo Gura What about jerking off without ejaculating? 

If you’re going to start something, finish it 

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Lyubov said:

The only personal problem I have with porn is my obvious double standard. I love porn, but would I date or marry a woman that did porn. Probably not. So I feel this inner contradiction. I’ll continue to watch though. I have other stuff to think about. 

If you love Game Of Thrones does that mean your have to fuck and marry Peter Dinklage?

[Loba]

If this is something that is important to you, I would suggest deleting the videos and don't allow any wiggle room with it.
If you fall off the horse, just get back up the next day and try again - and don't feel any shame for it, but once you start adding on things you can get away with, while working on an addiction, that is like the addiction coming back up again but with a different justification.

Like an alcoholic who only thinks he needs "one beer"... and that one beer brings him right back to where he was.

Rather than looking for ways around your addiction, just face it head on with honesty: "I fell of the horse today, and that sucks, but I am human and I'll do better tomorrow."  And then do it.  And if it happens again, do the same thing - just keep on with that.

I get it, I have a weed addiction and I will probably buy some in a few days because I want to have "pretty insights" that make me happy, but it isn't good for my lungs and I get less done.  Addiction is hard to manage sometimes.

[voxun]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If you love Game Of Thrones does that mean your have to fuck and marry Peter Dinklage?

Only if you have a fetish for little poeple.

[gettoefl]

have to see that sex / porn / fap is our trying to touch taste trance with the divine ... if we get the right perspective it drops right off

recommend osho's from sex to superconciousness

https://oshosearch.net/Convert/Articles_Osho/From_Sex_to_Superconsciousness/Osho-From-Sex-to-Superconsciousness-index.html

[puporing]

Mmmm hard to explain but if you just decide to drop it all you really can, say you're wanting to focus on something else for the next while. But don't guilt yourself if you do go back and enjoy whatever pleases you. It becomes easier to drop it when you want to if you also embrace your desires fully when you want to. 

[mojsterr]

Isn't not masturbating actually bad for your health?

[Kshantivadin]

On 3/5/2022 at 5:27 PM, Leo Gura said:

You guys and this no fap stuff.

Sigh....

Nofap got me into semen retention, which in turn got me into energy work. I think it's a net positive movement since porn is so rampant.

[mojsterr]

8 minutes ago, Kshantivadin said:

Nofap got me into semen retention, which in turn got me into energy work. I think it's a net positive movement since porn is so rampant.

So what was your process like? How long between masturbation sessions?

[Kshantivadin]

16 minutes ago, mojsterr said:

So what was your process like? How long between masturbation sessions?

To first answer your previous post, no, not masturbating is not bad for your health. It's a myth. Ancient traditions have been using non-ejaculation and celibacy as a means to achieve liberation for thousands of years.

I started it in 2017, maybe being able to get to 45 day streaks max in the beginning. From Feb '18, I abstained for a full year. Then I started being sexually active, learned about semen retention, taoist sex, non-ejaculatory orgasms and my path started being more about working with subtle energies rather than mere askesis.

 

Edited March 12, 2022 by Kshantivadin

[SgtPepper]

“Desires make slaves out of kings and patience makes kings out of slaves.”  
-- Al-Ghazali

 

[Arcangelo]

On 3/5/2022 at 2:10 AM, Someone here said:

it took me three hours.

WTF? You watched porn for 3 hours straight???????????

[Arcangelo]

On 3/5/2022 at 6:08 PM, Yarco said:

When you watch porn you're literally cucking yourself, because you're watching another man take a woman that you find desirable.

Hard agree.

[Arcangelo]

On 3/5/2022 at 6:50 PM, BipolarGrowth said:

Maybe the neuroticism brought about by no fap and no porn is worse than fapping and porn?

In some cases yes.

[Javfly33]

On 6/3/2022 at 1:50 AM, BipolarGrowth said:

Maybe the neuroticism brought about by no fap and no porn is worse than fapping and porn? 

???

[Federico del pueblo]

On 13.3.2022 at 6:15 AM, Arcangelo said:

WTF? You watched porn for 3 hours straight???????????

That's nothing ????