Should I do Life Purpose course while doing pickup?

[thenondualtankie]

And while studying full-time (I probably study around 30 hours a week). I've watched the first 3 (or so) videos of the LP course and you said if there's other things you need to focus on, do that first. In fact I stopped watching right before you said you'd do a visualisation to create a strong emotional desire to find out LP, because I got worried that it would waiver me from the path I should be on, i.e. fixing my dating and sex life.

At the same time though... it's common wisdom that women are more attracted to guys that have a life purpose. I can definitely see how knowing my life purpose would ground me in my pursuit of women. Furthermore lately I've been very keen on massively improving my life. I want to be super duper ambitious in life. I consider myself a very creative person with a decent amount of inherent talent in me, and I just don't know how exactly I'm gonna express the creative energy that I have.

But I really need to focus on pickup, because honestly going out takes a lot of time. I also have a pretty strong desire to achieve a high grade for my degree. There are other responsibilities that I have as well, e.g. I think I'm gonna start going to the gym very regularly now:

• Degree
• Gym
• Diet (Cooking, buying the right foods)
• My acting hobby, which may well end up being my LP anyways. Though I'm not at all clear on this, because my degree is mathematics (super unrelated to acting).

So hopefully I've been able to clearly communicate both sides of the argument as to whether I should commit to the LP right now. Otherwise I'll just do it over the summer break lol.

 

[Yarco]

Doing the life purpose course and committing to your life purpose are two different things.

I would say do the life purpose course in your spare time, even if it's only an hour at a time, once or twice a week.

If you're so time limited that you'll only be able to do it less than once a week, then I'd put it off, since you'll probably forget stuff from the previous module by the time you do the next.

Just finding out your life purpose doesn't mean that you need to commit your entire life to it right away. 

It'll be valuable just to have your life purpose in the back of your mind when making decisions, and to have an overall long-term path for your life. You can always come back to the course later if your priorities change.

Edited March 4, 2022 by Yarco