what is attraction to other certain human beings

[PurpleTree]

where does it come from?

can it be changed?

 

[PurpleTree]

for example one time i was working somewhere 

and a woman was attracted to me but i wasn't attracted to her

she even wrote me a "love letter" etc. which i thought was really cool, because i love it when women make the first step and thanked her etc.

and then she got sad and thought i hated her, but i didn't i just wasn't attracted to her

dont' know if this woman is the type of person to be attracted to every other guy, she also didn't seem that mentally stable after that

 

 

or there was a group of women, some of them were attracted to me or kind of liked me ( a woman in the group told me at some point later)

but i was attracted to the one who noticed me the least, i wanted the one which was least likely to want me