UGLY BOOBS INSECURITY

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

with plastic surgery you have to take care

 

i know this woman (don't know her well, friend of a friend)

she had some kind of body dysmorphia or an extreme lack of self love.

she started getting plastic surgery and wasn't quite happy. now she has these huge lips and it looks bad and a bit scary imo, it's sad.

i wouldn't tell her it looks bad though because obviously she has a huge issue there.

before all that she looked normal imo cute-ish 

Exactly what these people don't get it is  that so many surgeries are botched, no joke. We aren't celebrities and even celebrities get have their surgeries botched. 

It's not harmless. 

[Arcangelo]

I have experience with this.

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Is this a kind of problem I can improve by working on my psychology /mind? Or is it just a problem where I need to face the bitter truth?

Both

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

wait to make him fall in love before sex

Only if he is in primary school or something.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- What is your opinion on surgery? (I´m quite against it for various reasons) I am mostly interested in men´s opinions.

Go for it.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Am I limited to find only low quality guys because of that?

IDK maybe.

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Should I mention my insecurity to my future men?

Only If it makes you feel better.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Am I entitled to act confident in bed despite my insecurity?

Yes 100%

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Will a man think about better boobs while being with me?

YES.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Is it a turnoff to not wanna take my bra off?

Yes TOTALLY. This where I have experience. 4-5 years ago I went to bed with a woman taller than me, I had never been with a woman taller than me. She didn't want to take her bra off. I told her to do it.

Her: -"Oh you want my boobs? They are not a big deal."

When she took her bra off I understood.

Personally boobs are not even in my top 3 physical qualities.

For me is:

1. Butt

2. Legs

3. Face

4. Height

And yeah

5. Boobs.

On 2/24/2022 at 7:33 PM, Hello1 said:

- Have you experienced that a girl looked worse naked than you expected? Were you disappointed? Turned off?

Yes.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 7:45 PM, Hello1 said:

that a man will always wish he had someone else with a better body.

That's ALWAYS the case. No matter how beautiful she is.

 

On 2/24/2022 at 8:46 PM, Yarco said:

For most guys it's not going to be a dealbreaker anyway though.

Xactly

[Brandon L]

Honestly I would prefer a girl to have natural breast vs fake breast. I'm not a big fan of fake breast or fake asses, it's just unnatural and I'm personally not attracted to that.

[Random witch]

We aren't perfect by nature, everybody has is own "saggy boobs".

My "saggy boobs" is having almost no boobs. But I've never took that seriously, nice people recommended me "with love" to get a surgery because they assumed that I suffer.

But I didn't suffer until they bring this idea that small chest=suffer. 

The reality is that I don't that care about having boobs, for real. I also never tried to hide it or fight against my body. There were men snakes who tried to put me down because of it, but on the other side some 'boob' men fell deeply in love with me. So the situation is much more complex, it's not black or white. I think that even if I had normal beautiful chest, some men might dislike me or criticize me for other reasons. 

We should be more in acceptance with ourselves, we don't have to like everything in our body, just to let it be, and let the negative judgement of ourselves go.

Women are also very visual, I do like pretty men but I wouldn't mind if he has some imperfection as long as I'm attracted to the rest and love his personality.

 

Don't worry too much because most men themselves aren't ideal, there is no ideal men, not physically or in his character. How tolerance you have to imperfection of others? Of men? 

If you think you are are able to love and accept imperfection in others, what makes you think that you don't deserve the same treatment?

 

 

[Sucuk Ekmek]

On 25.02.2022 at 4:33 AM, Hello1 said:

 

- Is this a kind of problem I can improve by working on my psychology /mind? Or is it just a problem where I need to face the bitter truth?

 -Have you experienced that a girl looked worse naked than you expected? Were you disappointed? Turned off? 

 

Truth is you have the most beautiful boobs. If someone thinks otherway that's his problem & No, because my expectations are making her better in first place. If you are going to fuck you better fuck.