How to deal with sexual frustration?

[assx95]

I don't want to masturbate. I want to fuck real girls. I haven't jerked off for like 18 days. I am on college campus but it's not that big. And most girls are committed, or i don't find them attractive. The few who were single and who i find attractive, i tried on them, and i didn't get anywhere. There are a few more. How do i deal with this? And I am a virgin which makes it harder. 

[Leo Gura]

Jerk off and talk way more girls.

Don't kid yourself. Even if you get a gf you will not get by in life without jerking off.

[Federico del pueblo]

3 minutes ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Makes you wonder, why is there so much shame associated with the act. Entire ideologies have been created around the idea of not jerking off.

So true.

I celebrate the epicness of jerking off every time I do it.

Like my jerk off sessions are sacred ceremonies of ecstatic self love ♥️♥️♥️

[Federico del pueblo]

27 minutes ago, assx95 said:

How do i deal with this?

Watch Leo's series on how to get laid on do what he says there.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, assx95 said:

I am on college campus but it's not that big. And most girls are committed, or i don't find them attractive. The few who were single and who i find attractive, i tried on them, and i didn't get anywhere

Dude really? That sounds like a really crappy college. Most of them are filled with attractive girls who are all pretty sexually open. Are you sure you’re not just telling yourself these things to make yourself feel better? Careful with that

[kamwalker]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Jerk off and talk way more girls.

Don't kid yourself. Even if you get a gf you will not get by in life without jerking off.

I'm more sexually assertive if I haven't jerked off for 3-4 days and that helps me with flirting. But my sex drive also isn't what it was when I was in my early 20s so I kind of have no choice but to do that. If you're younger prob won't have that issue. 

[Ulax]

@Aleister Crowleyy No need to be a dick

[Ulax]

How stressed are you? How are your studies going?

[Javfly33]

3 hours ago, Federico del pueblo said:

So true.

I celebrate the epicness of jerking off every time I do it.

Like my jerk off sessions are sacred ceremonies of ecstatic self love ♥️♥️♥️

LoL

1 hour ago, Aleister Crowleyy said:

@assx95. It's so weird when I look at myself and feel bad about my game, then see guys like you who haven't even sniffed REAL puss puss. Lmaooooo

Bro cmon

[Federico del pueblo]

1 hour ago, Aleister Crowleyy said:

It's so weird when I look at myself and feel bad about my game, then see guys like you who haven't even sniffed REAL puss puss. Lmaooooo

Lol, an insecure ego gaining pleasure from placing itself above someone else ?

Just be more loving.

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Aleister Crowleyy said:

Doesn't jerking off make you feel weaker than usual?

No

[Reciprocality]

For some men not jerking of can be exactly what is needed for having something to lose if the courage to pick up girls were absent. (as in losing the pleasure of coming)

Or better yet: that there is something more to lose without jerking of then coming as evident in the girls that you have no courage to pick up. To which reason not jerking of can be found as a coping mechanism.

A complex world indeed, the question is which are you?

[Raze]

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf

[kray]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Jerk off and talk way more girls.

Don't kid yourself. Even if you get a gf you will not get by in life without jerking off.

I second this. I got a girlfriend who I can finish 10 times in a session, but sometimes I don't even cum once. If you got a really high sexual tolerance, then yea, jerk off. 

[Kubia]

I jerk off only when my sexual pulse is so high that is distracting. Then i masturbate without using any external source like porn or images.

Usually this happen in a span of a week without ejaculating. This is a good balance, also it feels like the best fap ever if you do only once in a while.

I've tried once to go once 30 days without ejaculating and it's true that your drive increase a lot, but you became much more aggressive and intense. It's a good experiment but not really sustainable for a lifestyle, at least for me.

[roopepa]

Why don't you want to masturbate?

[patricknotstar]

On 2/23/2022 at 0:42 PM, assx95 said:

I don't want to masturbate. I want to fuck real girls. I haven't jerked off for like 18 days. I am on college campus but it's not that big. And most girls are committed, or i don't find them attractive. The few who were single and who i find attractive, i tried on them, and i didn't get anywhere. There are a few more. How do i deal with this? And I am a virgin which makes it harder. 

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