Am I bisexual?

[Nahm]

@Someone here

Good. For. You. ???

Two cents… I am society, and I say fuck society. You are “society” too.   There is no “society”.   There’s the thought, “society”, and there (albeit apparent) is a mass epidemic of thought attachment, such that there is a chance it sounds odd to read ‘there is no society’.  There is experientially ‘my thoughts’, and there are ‘your thoughts’. It’s inherently privatized. What’s consensual & preferred between you and her or him, isn’t anyone’s business, but you and her or him. If anybody’s got a problem with that, they have a problem with self respect and projection, and if they don’t like it, they can take their business up with The Creator (self inquire ☺️). 

[puporing]

@Nahm ???

[Nahm]

@puporing ?? ?

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, blankisomeone said:

If you feel sexual towards other men, that's just a reparative drive for connection with other men

I've gone years without male friends. Never felt an urge to fuck one.

If you are straight you will never feel that urge, ever. All you will dream of is pussy.

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, blankisomeone said:

That's just one variable. There's many others.

The thought of fucking a man has never crossed my mind once in my life, just like I've never thought of fucking a horse.

[Leo Gura]

4 minutes ago, blankisomeone said:

Pricesely the reason why you shouldn't opine.

I'll leave the homosexuality to you.

[Federico del pueblo]

3 minutes ago, blankisomeone said:

Pricesely the reason why you shouldn't opine.

What more needs to be understood?

Is it really that hard to find out if you have some homosexuality in you?

[Javfly33]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Not at all.

I am 100% straight, but I imagine the woman's orgasm all the time. It's my fave part of sex. That doesn't mean I want a dude fucking me in the ass nor am I ever aroused by naked dudes.

The best of sex is the orgasm you give the woman.

Wtf? I always used to have that fantasy when watching porn , I always thought It meant there was something really wrong with my sexuality, imagining It being in the part of the woman. You sure thats normal? I mean shouldnt we fantasize with just being a man a fucking the Girl ?

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

You sure thats normal?

You asking me to be normal? Really?

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I mean shouldnt we fantasize with just being a man a fucking the Girl ?

Fuck no! Guys who do that are idiots. They don't understand sex.

[Hello from Russia]

6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You asking me to be normal? Really?

 

[Javfly33]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You asking me to be normal? Really?

Ok Fair enough in that Leo ?

Fuck no! Guys who do that are idiots. They don't understand sex.

Mmm I see ? So the main Focus of sex is the female pleasure/orgasm? (Not asking in an condescending way... i am truly curious since my experience is not very high in sex yet ...)

[Gregory1]

2 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Ok Fair enough in that Leo ?

 

 

Mmm I see ? So the main Focus of sex is the female pleasure/orgasm? (Not asking in an condescending way... i am truly curious since my experience is not very high in sex yet ...)

The main focus is the pleasure of both beings sharing love. Your pleasure is her pleasure. Her pleasure is your pleasure.

[Preety_India]

What can be more beautiful than a female orgasm? 

When I have sex dreams, I imagine myself orgasming and watch myself feeling and doing and nothing has been more ecstatic than that. 

Pure pleasure. 

 

 

[Javfly33]

27 minutes ago, Gregory1 said:

The main focus is the pleasure of both beings sharing love. Your pleasure is her pleasure. Her pleasure is your pleasure.

are they sharing love tho'? Always felt like sex was something animalistic bad or even hurtful

I remember the first time I cum was with a light bdsm video on the internet. Watching porn at a young age probably fucked up my mind really fucking bad...  :facepalm:

[puporing]

15 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

are they sharing love tho'? Always felt like sex was something animalistic bad or even hurtful

I remember the first time I cum was with a light bdsm video on the internet. Watching porn at a young age probably fucked up my mind really fucking bad...  :facepalm:

There's so many different kinds of sex one might be drawn to. No need to feel guilty about what you're drawn to, embrace it! LoL. To me it's like exploring an art form and there's no right answer to it (well assuming full consent whatever you're trying). 

[Gregory1]

28 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

are they sharing love tho'? Always felt like sex was something animalistic bad or even hurtful

I remember the first time I cum was with a light bdsm video on the internet. Watching porn at a young age probably fucked up my mind really fucking bad...  :facepalm:

Porn is mostly a loveless transaction. If you do it with a person you really like love can come into play.

Even without love, her pleasure is your pleasure, remember that. Its natural since you are not who you believe you are.

[Bob Seeker]

4 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

 Watching porn at a young age probably fucked up my mind really fucking bad...  :facepalm:

No, this is because everyone in society told you sex was shameful or not for young people or that porn is a perversion. 

it is internalized shame. Think about it, the west has been run by Christians like from the start. They are full of shame.

i had plenty of the same thing. I would get mad at myself every time for like 10+ years, the whole time it was just BS internalized negative messages from society.

definaty worth introspecting and seeing there is nothing to be afraid of with porn.

no fap is also stupid for the average person. It mostly breeds more shame.

the only thing to be mindful of in my book is what your heart is telling you. If you are being an incel loner and wasting your potential, and expect your heart to just watch as you jerk yourself into contentment, you’ve got another thing coming.

 

Edited February 19, 2022 by Bob Seeker

[Hardkill]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

The thought of fucking a man has never crossed my mind once in my life, just like I've never thought of fucking a horse.

What if a guy wanted to try having a threesome with both a guy and a girl and do all kinds of kinky stuff like dp, double anal, double vaginal, double barrel blowjobs? Would that make that guy homosexual or not necessarily?

[Roy]

5 minutes ago, Hardkill said:

What if a guy wanted to try having a threesome with both a guy and a girl and do all kinds of kinky stuff like dp, double anal, double vaginal, double barrel blowjobs? Would that make that guy homosexual or not necessarily?

Ask higher quality questions, and especially not ones you can easily answer yourself.

[Joel3102]

I’ve tried to watching gay porn open mindedly just to triple check out of curiousity that I’m not repressing any gay feelings, and I still find it gross no matter what 

1 hour ago, Hardkill said:

What if a guy wanted to try having a threesome with both a guy and a girl and do all kinds of kinky stuff like dp, double anal, double vaginal, double barrel blowjobs? Would that make that guy homosexual or not necessarily?

I think that’s perfectly straight. We watch guys in porn all the time in the context of another girl