Am I bisexual?

[Someone here]

I'm not 100% straight.  I sometimes feel attracted to men .especially handsome men .at first I was feeling ashamed of my self and disgusted for having such attraction. But I gotta admit i do like attractive men . I also like girls .I guess I'm bisexual after all .it takes balls to admit as a man that you like other men .however I'm not planning on dating a guy as that goes completely against the cultural norms. So I guess I'm suppressing that part of my sexuality .

[Roy]

Just own it and call yourself whatever you think is appropriate. There is no shame in whatever sexuality you feel (unless you're breaking a law lol). Your self-perception will actually be healthier if you do so and stop caring about what people think.

Besides the biggest homophobes and people who judge others sexualities are mostly just projecting and subconsciously doing it to cover up their own closeted desires. There is no reason to listen to them.

[Someone here]

11 minutes ago, Roy said:

Just own it and call yourself whatever you think is appropriate. There is no shame in whatever sexuality you feel (unless you're breaking a law lol). Your self-perception will actually be healthier if you do so and stop caring about what people think.

Besides the biggest homophobes and people who judge others sexualities are mostly just projecting and subconsciously doing it to cover up their own closeted desires. There is no reason to listen to them.

I can't have sex with a guy .it's totally unacceptable in my society. What should I do to not suppress this part of my sexuality?

[Roy]

2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I can't have sex with a guy .it's totally unacceptable in my society. What should I do to not suppress this part of my sexuality?

Yes you can. It might be dangerous if you get caught, but what is stopping you? Who is gonna know what you do in the privacy of your bedroom with someone?

[Salvijus]

Maybe u just need to ejaculate a bit. I belive forcefully suppressing sexual energy may cause perversions in the mind. That's what happens to priests i think.

If u want to come out of aping and porn etc. The only way is by purification of the mind, aka, spiritual sadhana. Suppressing buisness may lead to many problems. 

[Someone here]

17 minutes ago, Roy said:

Yes you can. It might be dangerous if you get caught, but what is stopping you? Who is gonna know what you do in the privacy of your bedroom with someone?

I really only desire to have sex with a girl . My attraction to men is more emotional than sexual. I like a handsome guy but I don't really wanna have sex with him .I guess my sexuality is confused. 

18 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Maybe u just need to ejaculate a bit. I belive forcefully suppressing sexual energy may cause perversions in the mind. That's what happens to priests i think.

If u want to come out of aping and porn etc. The only way is by purification of the mind, aka, spiritual sadhana. Suppressing buisness may lead to many problems. 

What does fapping and porn have to do with the subject at hand ?

[Leo Gura]

Yes you're bi.

If you were straight you would not care about dudes at all.

[Salvijus]

@Someone here im just saying be careful with suppressing your sexual desires too much. Supressed desires may find expression in very unusual ways. 

 

[Someone here]

14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Yes you're bi.

If you were straight you would not care about dudes at all.

Guess I have to accept it. 

Love you Leo  .

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Guess I have to accept it.

Sounds like you got the best of both worlds.

[Gesundheit2]

3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Love you Leo  .

That's quite the plot-twist 

[gettoefl]

am straight but love dudes more and more as i get awake, i like the word bisensual for me, and i have overcome all the homophobia i used to have

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

being a woman and getting penetrated by a man. Does imagining latter as a man, make you less straight?

Not at all.

I am 100% straight, but I imagine the woman's orgasm all the time. It's my fave part of sex. That doesn't mean I want a dude fucking me in the ass nor am I ever aroused by naked dudes.

The best of sex is the orgasm you give the woman.

[gettoefl]

good litmus test is

will i date a transsexual 

[roopepa]

Yes, you might be bi, or bi-curious. Pansexuality is also a possibility here. Though you don't need to categorize anything if you don't want to.

Take your time, let things uncover in comfortable phase. There's a ton of resources online if you wish to learn about these matters, and also perhaps other people who have same kinds of experiences, and who might understand what you are going through. I wish you happy times. ?

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

@Someone here im just saying be careful with suppressing your sexual desires too much. Supressed desires may find expression in very unusual ways. 

 

Gottcha. 

 

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Can someone who's always been straight, not be 100% straight? What I mean by that is, let's say for example once in your life, you imagined yourself being a woman. I remember in one of @Leo Gura videos - I think it was episode about missunderstandings between men and women - there was a thought experiment - or rather imagination experiment - about imagining yourself as being a man and penetrating a woman, and then being a woman and getting penetrated by a man. Does imagining latter as a man, make you less straight? Same with imagining the former as a woman..?

Let me clarify that I don't desire to be fucked by a guy .I'm top .not bottom. I just admire a handsome guy and feel deep love for him as I do with a beautiful girl. However I desire to have straight sex more.

[puporing]

@Someone here Maybe you just like masculine-esque girls (and some men). I like/admire them too (not necessarily want to date them), and I dig men who embrace some feminine traits also.

Edited February 18, 2022 by puporing

[Loba]

I'm a bit bi and feel the same way, I prefer men, but a really beautiful woman is hard not to look at and my friendships with other women have always been much deeper - yet I prefer men, it's kind of annoying.  Being bi is pretty normal, sexuality runs on a spectrum, there's also different deviations of sexuality as well - it's a pretty deep topic, one that I am exploring and I am finding that there is a lot of personal power in coming to understand one's sexuality, rather than repressing it.  You don't need to sleep with a guy to enjoy your sexuality, just find out what you feel the most comfortable with, start slow and stuff, like writing, reading, maybe porn if you watch that.  Like me, you can be attracted to the same sex, but prefer the opposite sex.

Understanding your sexuality helps to balance your lower chakras, can help a person to feel more grounded in themselves; there's a lot of practical benefits.

[PurpleTree]

one time while smoking weed i had kind of gay thoughts

but it was more along the lines of intrusive thoughts

it was weird and only really once i think

have no problem with calling a guy good looking though