Witnessing excessive amounts of verbal conflict as a child

[John Paul]

@puporing yes i watched daniel's grieving video. that is enough for now i think. it reminded me that comprehension is a different element of personal development than forgiveness 

[puporing]

@John Paul yeah it'll make the next step come more naturally...

Take it easy.. good luck...  

[yetineti]

It’s hard to give resources wi to out knowing what the verbal conflict was and how it has affected you 

Ex: I witness my parents fight and scream a lot; ‘verbal conflict.’ 
 

Personally, I became an argumentative brat over having witness this for so long.

But some would have become timid.

What kind of verbal conflict for you? To you like to bicker? Or are you more timid because of this?

I’d need a bit more context.

[Hello1]

On 2/17/2022 at 7:32 AM, puporing said:

Yes but he's controversial - Daniel Mackler (he's on YouTube) if you feel up to it. He helped me a lot I really needed someone to side with my inner child and not waver on it (fact is 5/6 of the therapists I saw did waver on this).

Also highly recommend Gabor Mate, he's prob more palatable to the spiritual crowd.

yeeees I know Daniel Mackler. 

He seems sometimes a bit unhealthy to me, too negative and using his channel to spill it out , however, I don ´´t blame him for that, it has helped me too, I also needed someone to side with me !!!!!!! I even read his book "breaking from your parents" and his documentary on healing schizophrenia in finland is interesting

[Razard86]

On 2/17/2022 at 3:47 PM, puporing said:

@John Paul Yeah.. somehow I was able to recognize it and moved on from them.. I think most therapists have not internally broken away from their parents so they cannot help someone else to do this either. There's still some value and most are empathetic to an extent or another. 

So much wisdom in your statement. Healers seek to heal because they want to alleviate their suffering by alleviating suffering of others.