Infatuation and connection are two different things

[Preety_India]

Just wanted to share my insight. 

 Women can be attracted to a guy's strength/looks but ultimately not be compatible personality wise.

infatuation is different from compatibility. 

 

There are lots of attractive men, lots of them... But that doesn't translate as harmony, compatibility, chemistry..... passion, commitment, understanding, connection and intimacy/bonding. 

Always be aware of what you really need. 

 

[Cleopatra]

Yep, so true. I learned this the hard way when I met the 'perfect' guy but we were very incompatible when it comes to humor. Which might seem like a little thing but when it comes to long lasting connection, some incompatibilities become obstacles.