What turns you on?

[Mosess]

YOU!

[Gesundheit2]

23 hours ago, hamedsf said:

a busty blonde girl with stockings 

 

[ivankiss]

If I'm being totally honest and as precise as I can be: I turn myself on.

No one has to do or be anything.

That being said, I do have some preferences, of course. Mostly; I'm into petite women. Cute and with a spark in their eyes. For some reason I like it when they're a bit shy. If they're too loud and extroverted it can throw me off a bit, but that's not necessarily a deal-breaker. I do however get turned off hard by girls who are acting like bros. Nothing sexy about a girl who's...well...a dude. Lol. 

Cleaver, sharp, present, playful, sincere... All great qualities. Emotional intelligence is super important, too. The ability to surrender and follow my lead, as well. Up for an adventure, has a passion for something in life, or is passionate about living in general. If she can play an instrument and/or sing that's a massive plus. 

But also, you know, nice titties and fit booty. Can't forget about that. Love curly hair and I also have a thing for french cut lol.

Sometimes I'm into 'bigger' women, too.

[LastThursday]

Has a pulse (JOKE).

I'm attracted by energy. Although it's really hard to put into words. It's not necessarily extroversion or sexual energy, although that can help. Just that there's a kind of flow and joy at being alive. I very rarely come across women who have it, most women are nice, but bore me stiff once I get to know them. Hang on... am I gay...? Nah. Men are even more boring.

[RendHeaven]

I am attracted WOMEN, but that's not worth talking about imo.

More recently I'm exploring what it's like to be genuinely attracted to masculinity 

Still absolutely NOT down to actually fuck dudes, having been a "straight male" my whole life (still am, I guess)

But simultaneously there is an undeniable sexiness to masculine energy which puts it on-par with the feminine.

In a single word: Relentlessness.

Synonyms: Dedication, Determination, Commitment, Conviction, Certainty, Confidence

Dear god that shit makes me (literally) so horny

Edited February 18, 2022 by RendHeaven

[peanutspathtotruth]

In a woman: A deep desire for Truth/God, nothing sexier than that. Transparency, emotional intelligence and honesty, ability and will to surrender completely.

[Leo Gura]

21 hours ago, LastThursday said:

most women are nice, but bore me stiff once I get to know them

If she makes you stiff, where's the problem?

[Leo Gura]

14 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

In a single word: Relentlessness.

Synonyms: Dedication, Determination, Commitment, Conviction, Certainty, Confidence

Dear god that shit makes me (literally) so horny

You might be gay

[RendHeaven]

32 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You might be gay

bwahahaha ??

[puporing]

@RendHeaven Just find a masculine-esque girl or something, those exist. Maybe you just have better tastes . 

Edited February 18, 2022 by puporing

[PurpleTree]

elegance and (good) pride are a turn on for example imo

[Gesundheit2]

@Knowledge Hoarder Leo's shadow side turned out to be more diverse than I expected ?

[LastThursday]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If she makes you stiff, where's the problem?

Life would be boring without problems.

[Leo Gura]

18 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

Life would be boring without problems.

I've yet to meet a girl who doesn't bring a bunch of problems

[LastThursday]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I've yet to meet a girl who doesn't bring a bunch of problems

I'd like to comment further but...

 

[Gesundheit2]

What turns me on?

Personality-wise: Narcissistically, pathologically high levels of self-worth. At the same time free and playful. Fun to be around. These qualities trump looks for me.

Looks: I mostly subscribe to a religion called Adonitology. But no amount of ass can make up for lack of personality traits.

[Peace-and-Love]

@PepperBlossoms

On 2/11/2022 at 6:41 PM, PepperBlossoms said:

What is a yes and what is a no when it comes to potential partners?

What are you looking for?  What does it for you?

For a long time I thought I knew what I wanted in a partner, that perfect 10. (Physical attraction, life purpose, similar career, interested in personal development- Reiki, hypnosis, meditation etc).  And when I had a few instances when I had the perfect 10 I wasn’t satisfied because they were narcissistic, rude, non-committal or something else that couldn’t be ignored.

My current bf is out of the norm. We don’t connect eye to eye on everything but we are supportive of each other. It seems to work for me. 

[integral]

INFPs, every single one of them just scores high on the cutie scale

With high openness, conscientiousness and introversion

I also like people with a specific body language, there relaxed but also ready to run and play around

Also calm, calm is just seductive

Edited February 23, 2022 by integral

[flume]

Honesty 

[Ulax]

Italian women, my jesus.

Also, girls who are into poetry, muse about/ are romantic about life