Sexual dreams

[Gabith]

Hey this night I had wonderful sex with a squirting woman & with a great sense of love 
I was thinking today about how it would be cool if I could make similar dreams more often & even more longer/vivid 

Is there ways to make more sexual dreams ? It is possible to have sexual dreams each night ? 
 

[Terell Kirby]

Why not try to actualize this in real life? It'll be much better than in the dream .. I promise 

[Gabith]

Would be nice but I try to let go of wanting a girlfriend because I have to love myself first until I become okay with being alone
I've attracted toxic relationship in the past 

I know I will find easily in the future, when I'll be more authentic and completely okay with being alone because I meet a lot of people almost everyday

[Kksd74628]

@Gabith

Have a dream journal where you write down everything you remember about your dream immendiately after you wake up or otherwise you won't remember that much. That will teach you to be more conscious when dreaming. Some say that apple juice makes you have more vivid dreams - but is this true - who knows.

Check guides about how to lucid dream and in those you can decide that which happens in dream. Remember that first if you are not so good lucid dreamer you can't do everything, because too intense dreams could wake you up. That is also something which requires being patient. 

Secondly you should write everything down that you think would help you to achieve any vision in your "real" life. You live more in this "life dream" so of course it makes sense that you should put more effort to this instead of dreams at night.

Best way to learn from yourself is to just to be around people and then contemplate which works or which not and then adjust your actions based on your conclusions. If you allow yourself to learn from your past relationships I would be sure that there are lot of important teachings and that is reason you should just keep grinding that which you want to be better at.

Lastly just start meditating and writing, because those 2 cure all your problems that you could have.

Strong mind leads to strong decisions : )

-joNi-

[Kalki Avatar]

Just before you are falling asleep, watch some porn or pics of girls you like while feeling horny, but at the same time be tired enough not to jerk off. This desire will come in the dream. 

I have many Wet dreams and trust me they can even be better than real life. Everything is perfect. The only down side is when I cannot even make a distinction of it being a dream, making me cum in my sheets. 

Edited February 10, 2022 by Kalki Avatar

[Kksd74628]

@Kalki Avatar

Side note - You don't take this moment right NOW as dream only, because you label it as real. What is the difference between this moment and the moment you think you are in dream. Do you have have evidence that the dream you think you have inside this real life actually happens inside this moment, but would be just worth the same? That is something for you guys to contemplate  

[flowboy]

@Gabith  If sexual dreams is what you really want, then the recipe is simple:

Don't ejaculate for 3-4 weeks.

Thank me later

[Gabith]

Thank u everyone

[Nahm]

On 2/10/2022 at 11:17 AM, Gabith said:

Would be nice but I try to let go of wanting a girlfriend because I have to love myself first until I become okay with being alone
I've attracted toxic relationship in the past 

Take a moment to reflect on past relationships. What resonated, what didn’t? What was fun & easy, what was difficult? What did I attract, and why?

To ignore the discord and alignment of thoughts, is to project the discord onto ‘others’ as “toxic”. 

To feel the discord and alignment, and understand it, is to change it, and thus to naturally attract what’s wanted…

Make a dreamboard, and use the emotional scale. 

Therein is the loving yourself. It’s in addressing the discord & alignment - not conceptualizing & projecting. 

There is no justifiable justification, or rational rationalization, for suppression. 

On 2/10/2022 at 11:17 AM, Gabith said:

I know I will find easily in the future, when I'll be more authentic and completely okay with being alone because I meet a lot of people almost everyday

There is no ‘I which knows’. 

There is no future, there is the believing of thoughts that there is a future, and better feeling will or could be in it. Attraction’s happnin right now, always. 

Feeling is only ever now, and the discord & alignment of thoughts, now, can not actually be projected onto others and or a future. Only believing the thoughts that ‘it’ can, makes it seem so. 

[Michal__]

On 2/10/2022 at 3:48 PM, Gabith said:

Hey this night I had wonderful sex with a squirting woman & with a great sense of love 
I was thinking today about how it would be cool if I could make similar dreams more often & even more longer/vivid 

Is there ways to make more sexual dreams ? It is possible to have sexual dreams each night ? 
 

Lucid dreaming.

Or you could just go and do it irl.