How has your dating life improved after watching leo's series?

[integration journey]

Just curious ?

I noticed that I'm becoming more and more extroverted and I noticed that my standards are high.

Still no serious results but I did have a date and a kiss

The coolest girls always  say they have boyfriends I noticed.

I want to get this dating shit out of my karmic system, it feels like survival. 

After I have an intimate relationship with a girl, I don't feel like I want anything else from life. After that, I just want to focus on the life purpose stuff and providing high  value and creativity. 

I know self- deception will try to fuck with me and want another girl after the first one though

I know someone will say focus on the life purpose now but after watching leo's series on getting laid, I felt this huge stagnant karma that  I need to fulfill so I can move the fuck on 

 

 

[something_else]

I don't think I struggle with the theory of attraction. I know what behaviour is attractive, I'm just incredibly under socialised so I am bad at putting it into practice myself

Since partaking in forum discussion here in the dating section (I haven't actually watched the dating series) I've started going to clubs a bunch and I feel like it has developed me a lot. I've had a reasonable amount of success with girls in clubs and also I'm now just generally getting better at socialising

Mostly any dating content I consume is just about motivating me to actually go and socialise rather than learning any particular theory

[Nahm]

 

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I know someone will say focus on the life purpose now but after watching leo's series on getting laid, I felt this huge stagnant karma that  I need to fulfill so I can move the fuck on 

Let that (and all the rest) of these conceptualizations of direct experience, of life you might say, go. 

If what you’re feeling, which is said to be the hurdle, the discord, is a ‘huge karma’, that ‘you need to fulfill to move on’… inspect that which is said to be the obstacle. Where is it? What is it? How does it feel? Does it resonate with you? How so, why or why not? When did you yourself first think of this? What was the circumstances or situation in which this need arose? When you are not ‘fulfilling this need’, what’s happening to you, such that it is justified that this is a need?