100% unable to take my mind off sex & be productive

[vladorion]

14 minutes ago, Thestarguitarist14 said:

Men definitely view and experience sex differently than women.

Sure.

Which doesn't mean that men always have a higher sex drive or are more obsessed with sex than women.

"A woman will never provide you sufficient sex" may be true for Leo but not true for many other men.

[Thestarguitarist14]

28 minutes ago, vladorion said:

Sure.

Which doesn't mean that men always have a higher sex drive or are more obsessed with sex than women.

"A woman will never provide you sufficient sex" may be true for Leo but not true for many other men.

Men definitely have higher sex drives than women.  For men sex is a huge source of validation.  Attractive can have sex anytime they desire.  What women want is non sexual attention.

[vladorion]

6 minutes ago, Thestarguitarist14 said:

Men definitely have higher sex drives than women.  For men sex is a huge source of validation.  Attractive can have sex anytime they desire.  What women want is non sexual attention.

Typically. That's not the case for all men and women. That's my point.

And the idea that women want non sexual attention and not sex is not true. Women want sex too.

[Thestarguitarist14]

4 minutes ago, vladorion said:

Typically. That's not the case for all men and women. That's my point.

And the idea that women want non sexual attention and not sex is not true. Women want sex too.

Focusing on fringe cases and exceptions does no one any good.

And do not put words in my mouth.  I said what women really want is non sexual attention and you know it.  Do joy conflate that with their desire for physical intimacy.  What you cannot seem to grasp is that women are in an abundance of sex egress every guy outside of Drake and Leonardo DiCaprio is not.

[eTorro]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It is absurd to compare the sexual needs of a man with a woman.

Okay, that's fair.

But I have the need of understanding female sexuality.

Are women more sexual than men in terms of needs and instincts?

Who is more driven to have sex? A man or a woman?

From a hormonal standpoint, a man has a bigger drive for sex, right?

[something_else]

4 hours ago, eTorro said:

But I have the need of understanding female sexuality.

Are women more sexual than men in terms of needs and instincts?

Who is more driven to have sex? A man or a woman?

From a hormonal standpoint, a man has a bigger drive for sex, right?

Why do you care? Knowing the answers to these questions won't help you in the slightest. Go and do something practical instead of pondering silly questions like these

Both men and women want sex, men on average want it more, men on average have less access to it and have to work harder for it. There you go. Now go do something practical

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I can’t believe how everyone is advocating jerking off.  A lot of people have porn addiction issues and at the end of the day self pleasure is anti social.  He clearly feels like he it’s hurting his life.

You might as well tell him to do Heroin as that will make him feel better.

@Thestarguitarist14 "Self-pleasure is anti social" The fuck are you talking about?

Jerking off a few times a week is not gonna hurt you. It's certainly better than being unable to think or focus on important shit because you need to cum. Yea, if you get addicted it's bad but you can say that about many things

[Nahm]

The discord is with the thoughts, with yourself. Beliefs. Desperate and creepy is just the way you’re going about it. If desperate and creepy were indicative of you, you’d feel perfectly aligned. 

[vladorion]

9 hours ago, Thestarguitarist14 said:

Focusing on fringe cases and exceptions does no one any good.

And do not put words in my mouth.  I said what women really want is non sexual attention and you know it.  Do joy conflate that with their desire for physical intimacy.  What you cannot seem to grasp is that women are in an abundance of sex egress every guy outside of Drake and Leonardo DiCaprio is not.

Saying that "you will never get enough sex from a woman" does no one any good, just installs negative beliefs in someone who will accept this idea. Focusing on fringe cases (there are a lot of women with high sex drive, not just a few, as well as there are a lot of men with low sex drive) has the point to show that the above idea is simply not true.

No, I don't know it. And you don't know it either. That's what you believe. Women want non sexual attention on a superficial level. The reason why women don't have sex at every opportunity is not because they don't want it. 1) Women are more picky about who they have sex with. 2) Society stigmatizes and slut shames women for sexual promiscuity. 3) Sex is more dangerous for a woman: she can get pregnant, raped etc. 4) There are esoteric/energetic reasons why sexual promiscuity is not good for women, which many women intuitively feel. 

[Thestarguitarist14]

@something_else Too bad a lot of men are addicted to porn.  There are no real positive benefits to masturbating, particularly to porn which lets be honest, that’s how men get off by themselves.

1 hour ago, vladorion said:

Saying that "you will never get enough sex from a woman" does no one any good, just installs negative beliefs in someone who will accept this idea. Focusing on fringe cases (there are a lot of women with high sex drive, not just a few, as well as there are a lot of men with low sex drive) has the point to show that the above idea is simply not true.

No, I don't know it. And you don't know it either. That's what you believe. Women want non sexual attention on a superficial level. The reason why women don't have sex at every opportunity is not because they don't want it. 1) Women are more picky about who they have sex with. 2) Society stigmatizes and slut shames women for sexual promiscuity. 3) Sex is more dangerous for a woman: she can get pregnant, raped etc. 4) There are esoteric/energetic reasons why sexual promiscuity is not good for women, which many women intuitively feel. 

You clearly lack experience with women and to be gynocentric.  No reason to continue this conversation with you.   Good day sir.

[something_else]

5 minutes ago, Thestarguitarist14 said:

Too bad a lot of men are addicted to porn.  There are no real positive benefits to masturbating, particularly to porn which lets be honest, that’s how men get off by themselves.

Yea, a fair few are addicted to porn, I'll give you that. The positive is freeing up your mind to think about other things clearly

[vladorion]

13 minutes ago, Thestarguitarist14 said:

@something_else Too bad a lot of men are addicted to porn.  There are no real positive benefits to masturbating, particularly to porn which lets be honest, that’s how men get off by themselves.

You clearly lack experience with women and to be gynocentric.  No reason to continue this conversation with you.   Good day sir.

Lol. Maybe you lack experience with women? Since you've never had a gf that wanted as much sex from you as you wanted from her.

[Thestarguitarist14]

54 minutes ago, vladorion said:

Lol. Maybe you lack experience with women? Since you've never had a gf that wanted as much sex from you as you wanted from her.

Guess you didn’t read my thread. 

[Thestarguitarist14]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

Yea, a fair few are addicted to porn, I'll give you that. The positive is freeing up your mind to think about other things clearly

The thing is that porn addiction usually gives one low self esteem.  It just reinforces the fact that you are not getting laid.

[Bobby_2021]

On 2/2/2022 at 11:39 PM, Leo Gura said:

There's your problem.

Jerking off exists for good reason.

A woman will never provide you sufficient sex, even if you get a girlfriend. Welcome to being a man.

No fap is dumb.

There are many of my Indian friends who say that you can practice semen retention or no fap only when combined with the apt spiritual practices. Else all your energy is exhausted on controlling your hand from not touching dick.

 

So do sadhanas or whatever if you are doing no fap. Else jerk off.