Meeting someone at their spiral stage

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11 hours ago, DocWatts said:

Trying to do the same thing with say, Red, for example has typically been a frustrating experience because there's not a whole lot I can empathize with from the stage, even if on an intellectual level I realize that it's a necessary developmental stage.

I wouldn't say that my experience has been frustrating as it has been futile. Reds are typically toxic and narcissistic. I have learned to avoid them all together. Blues I find boring, although they can be quite kind. Oranges I have a tendency to get frustrated with as you do with reds.