I love Leo in Vegas

[Lyubov]

Women are far more social than men. You will not find them sitting in their room alone as much as guys. They will have a couple friends, a roommate, be at the gym with a trainer, doing something they like around other people, etc. I've seen on several occasions single beautiful women go to clubs alone just to hear a dj they like play. When they get totally alone like this they will hop on tinder or go to the club to meet a guy for some company. I've actually found some of the most eager women to be ones that just moved to a new city and didn't know anyone. Women take advantage of how easy it is to find them a guy when they feel lonely. Women that are solo traveling as a single tourist are some of the most eager to socialize and hook up. Probably some of the coolest girls you will meet too. 

Edited January 12, 2022 by Lyubov

[Javfly33]

35 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

Women are far more social than men. You will not find them sitting in their room alone as much as guys. They will have a couple friends, a roommate, be at the gym with a trainer, doing something they like around other people, etc. I've seen on several occasions single beautiful women go to clubs alone just to hear a dj they like play. When they get totally alone like this they will hop on tinder or go to the club to meet a guy for some company. I've actually found some of the most eager women to be ones that just moved to a new city and didn't know anyone. Women take advantage of how easy it is to find them a guy when they feel lonely. Women that are solo traveling as a single tourist are some of the most eager to socialize and hook up. Probably some of the coolest girls you will meet too. 

I think you are right and also your message is good news, sometimes going to socialize i wonder "am i disturbing the person? Maybe he/she is 'in that mood' and Dont want to Talk to anyone now'".

But with women theres more chances then they Will be open to socialize, i just think they enjoy It more.

 

[Hardkill]

32 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

Women are far more social than men. You will not find them sitting in their room alone as much as guys. They will have a couple friends, a roommate, be at the gym with a trainer, doing something they like around other people, etc. I've seen on several occasions single beautiful women go to clubs alone just to hear a dj they like play. When they get totally alone like this they will hop on tinder or go to the club to meet a guy for some company. I've actually found some of the most eager women to be ones that just moved to a new city and didn't know anyone. Women take advantage of how easy it is to find them a guy when they feel lonely. Women that are solo traveling as a single tourist are some of the most eager to socialize and hook up. Probably some of the coolest girls you will meet too. 

I see what you're saying. 

What makes me curious about this is why guys sit in their room alone more often than girls do? Why aren't we men naturally as social as women are?

[Javfly33]

5 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

@Hardkill They spend a shit lot of time watching tv shows and especially on social media. Video games and porn are more of a guy thing.

I agree. Some Girls are Absolutely hooked on Instagram and Twitter.

21 hours ago, How to be wise said:

@Leo Gura Just keep in mind that if you get a girlfriend from the nightclub, she will be somebody that likes going to nightclubs since she was there before you met. That means she will continue going to the nightclub even after you two are together. Now you have two options: Go to the nightclub with her every time, where you don’t like going to, or have her go by herself. She will be hit on by guys continuously, so you better hope she is the type of girl that will reject all of them. 

Da fuck? 99% of Girls just go out LoL.

There's plenty of Girls that go out to clubs and have boyfriends. They just like to have fun dude 

[blessedlion1993]

2 hours ago, Hardkill said:

What makes me curious about this is why guys sit in their room alone more often than girls do? Why aren't we men naturally as social as women are?

I think it's actually not a preference and guys are just not as "welcomed" socially. It's harder for men to be accepted in social circles. This is something i have been noticing recently, i don't think it's that men don't want the connection and socializing, we're all social animals, but women are just better at it and i believe social conditioning gives them a lot more support to have friends, be vulnerable etc. 

I also think there is a component of gender though, men find it a bit more pointless to just chat, while for women it's almost a form of medicine or meditation.

Men want to be left alone a lot more. 

Also, sexuallly it's actually dangerous for women, especially attractive ones, to not have a little pack or crew, so survivally it makes more sense. I travel a lot and all the women i meet have a little group of friends eestablished within literally hours of getting to a place. it's impressive.

Also, love the videos Leo, God is everywhere. I really enjoy clubbing and partying sober and just tripping out on it.

[Husseinisdoingfine]

These videos actually did their part to depress me.

I don't know if I should ever get into pick up, considering celibacy. First and foremost, I really don't like loud music settings. I also really don't like pop. Just listening to pop or techno is enough to put me in a bad mood. It just all seems so trashy to me.

I also am not the typical masculine assertive man that women love, as I am rather effeminate.  

Edited January 12, 2022 by Husseinisdoingfine

[Terell Kirby]

9 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

These videos actually did their part to depress me.

I don't know if I should ever get into pick up, considering celibacy. First and foremost, I really don't like loud music settings. I also really don't like pop. Just listening to pop or techno is enough to put me in a bad mood. It just all seems so trashy to me.

I also am not the typical masculine assertive man that women love, as I am rather effeminate.  

Does Leo make you insecure about yourself?

[Husseinisdoingfine]

8 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

Does Leo make you insecure about yourself?

Of course not.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

These videos actually did their part to depress me.

I don't know if I should ever get into pick up, considering celibacy. First and foremost, I really don't like loud music settings. I also really don't like pop. Just listening to pop or techno is enough to put me in a bad mood. It just all seems so trashy to me.

I also am not the typical masculine assertive man that women love, as I am rather effeminate.  

What is it about loud music settings you don't like?

If you really hate these then your other options are to make some friends, go do activities you enjoy, meet girls that way

If you can't go to busy sociable places and you can't build a social circle then yea celibacy is probably your only option lol. But I'd recommend you instead try pushing your comfort zones and see what happens

You sound a little bit like you have the "I'm above partying and socialising" attitude that I used to have when I was in high school to justify myself being kind of a loner. Holy fuck I'm glad I got over that

[blessedlion1993]

1 hour ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

These videos actually did their part to depress me.

I don't know if I should ever get into pick up, considering celibacy. First and foremost, I really don't like loud music settings. I also really don't like pop. Just listening to pop or techno is enough to put me in a bad mood. It just all seems so trashy to me.

I also am not the typical masculine assertive man that women love, as I am rather effeminate.  

I've always been a party animal so i feel it is pretty much out of my system, now at 28, the idea of clubbing makes me want to curl up and puke. I'd much rather hit the beach, do tantra or ecstatic dance, or just read a book. The people at clubs can be cool, but they can also be such pieces of shit

I had this attitude once, but it never really works, very few people can pull off celibacy, eventually you will deeply crave a womens touch. Also, you don't have to do pick-up the way it's taught. People make is so complex, it's mostly just pump up stuff to motivate guys to talk to girls, i believe naturally you can just become good at it through practice, do it your own way. 

So many of these pick up artists are just narcissist douche bags with no authenticity or love in their hearts, most of them were not good with girls when young so fucking a bunch of women is like revenge, it doesn't open many hearts and heal many souls. It's actually quite lame and a huge distraction. 

Good news is there are tons of guys who get women and are feminine, some girls like it. Shit, where i live most of the guys are feminine and they get constant cuddles and attention from women. 

This whole idea of being a "masculine alpha dude" is old news and it's lame. Real alpha males are kind, intelligent and social 

[Husseinisdoingfine]

@blessedlion1993 At least some one understands me.

[blessedlion1993]

19 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

@blessedlion1993 At least some one understands me.

<3

[Husseinisdoingfine]

My disdain for pop/rock/techno music is so strong at this point, I actually lose a little bit of respect for those who listen to it.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

My disdain for pop/rock/techno music is so strong at this point, I actually lose a little bit of respect for those who listen to it.

Get that stick out of your ass

[JosephKnecht]

22 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

My disdain for pop/rock/techno music is so strong at this point, I actually lose a little bit of respect for those who listen to it.

You just don't get the vibes, man. 

Get the vibes! 

[LSD-Rumi]

23 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

My disdain for pop/rock/techno music is so strong at this point, I actually lose a little bit of respect for those who listen to it.

limiting belief?