How Can I Do Anything With The Amount Of Options I Have

[faith]

One reason I suffer, and I am sure many more suffer is by the sheer amount of choices we have. I absolutely don't want to do anything at all. There are just so many things I could do, and because I have also picked up a perfectionistic personality along the way somewhere, now I really struggle to start anything in my life. All my goals are at a halt, and I keep adding new goals and ideas, and it's all becoming a real pain in the arse. 

Beside goal making, this is also evident in another important area of life - relationships. There are just so many options, and you want to have them all. This is a real problem for me because I already have a girlfriend who is the most amazing person I know, but does that mean I am a saint? I have been suffering trying to reconcile relationship based feelings for a long time now with no real solid path to follow.

Could someone with a similar problem please respond, and give me a clue. I really have none.

Thank you.

[Time Traveler]

You should discover your life purpose.

Leo has a detailed course on that and reviews are extremely good.

[eskwire]

On 1/5/2017 at 10:11 PM, ashashlov said:

Beside goal making, this is also evident in another important area of life - relationships. There are just so many options, and you want to have them all.

Why do you want to have them all? You make this sound as if it is necessarily and obviously true.

Perhaps look inside and see what beliefs you hold about options and question them. Like really question them. Like a child asking "why?" "why?" "why?" to every response you give. 

Also, yes, Life Purpose Course is probably a good move.