I'm doing nofap 2022

[Yarco]

Gl. Avoid getting bored and finding you have nothing to do, or you'll probably resort to fapping. Avoid softcore stuff like Instagram entirely as well, or it'll start to tempt you and lead you back.

[Emotionalmosquito]

What about non-ejaculatory faps? Are those aloud?

[At awe]

@Emotionalmosquito I think that it would make it worse. Like being hungry for several days and then looking and smelling food without eating..?

[Someone here]

19 hours ago, happyhappy said:

@Someone here

yh man...here I am jerking off several times a day lol..honestly bro, LMAO..  

and if u wanna find a new kinda porn ask me(kidding)

jokes aside, for me at least nofap only increases motivation to fap. and sexual transmutation is the alternative I see.  

 

On a serious note.. Fapping multiple times a day has plenty of negative consequences. 

[Someone here]

18 hours ago, Medhansh said:

What is your action plan? How are you gonna handle the excess sexual energy that will naturally build up inside you? Are you planning on doing kriya/yoga/sadhana/meditation/exercise? Or will you use sheer willpower to "bust" through it?

Mere willpower and determination. 

[Someone here]

10 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

What about non-ejaculatory faps? Are those aloud?

No obviously not allowed. 

[Someone here]

I will update this thread at the end of every month to track my progress and journey. 

[happyhappy]

59 minutes ago, Someone here said:

On a serious note.. Fapping multiple times a day has plenty of negative consequences. 

true bro. I 'm really working on reducing this addiction .at least give up porn first .

 U see, we grew up with the porn and internet .most of the guys been watching porn since the age of 13,14. mere willpower won't break addictions like this since it is like keeping a ball under water. once the pressure is removed, it relapses.

[Someone here]

@happyhappy do you think we are lucky or unlucky as a generation to having grown up in porn Era? 

[Javfly33]

Does 2 times a month really affect you that much tho'? 

I've done nofap in the past and i havent noticed benefit from fapping 2 times a month to not fapping at all.

[Someone here]

@Javfly33 it's about the principle. 

Fapping and porn habit is toxic and unhealthy and causes unnecessary problems. So I decided to quit for good. 

[gettoefl]

my take is do it fully til you see the futility ... truly get it out of your system once and for all ... sex is just one way to peek at god ... have not masturbated in years and don't think about it ... still get horny seeing hot girls but it is just love i feel for them not the desire for sex ... last had sex in 2019 and have not been involved since then

Edited January 9, 2022 by gettoefl

[Someone here]

@gettoefl pure mind

[gettoefl]

7 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@gettoefl pure mind

yes maybe and it has taken 56 years ... so don't be too hard on yourself

[gettoefl]

some great comments in this thread

https://www.reddit.com/r/Meditation/comments/rz0g6s/meditation_made_me_quit_porn/

 

and i would agree that meditation helps, puts you more on the god vibration

[happyhappy]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

@happyhappy do you think we are lucky or unlucky as a generation to having grown up in porn Era? 

both huh.. stone age hunter gatherers ,agricultural revolutionaries, medieval folks never had access to seeing such a splendid number of hot sex that we have access today other than their imagination and fantasy.

unlucky side is all the negative side effects and consequences of porn we face today. I know guys who have hard disks full of this stuff that they have been watching since they were like 12, 13. lol...just imagine how hard porn might be hardwired  to their brains. 

[Bobby_2021]

How bout collapsing the distinction between fapping and not fapping?  

 

cheers man good luck.

[Vincent S]

35 minutes ago, Bobby_2021 said:

How bout collapsing the distinction between fapping and not fapping?  

 

cheers man good luck.

Good one! Brilliant

[PurpleTree]

fap/fapping is a pretty funny word tbh

Edited January 9, 2022 by PurpleTree

[Someone here]

37 minutes ago, Bobby_2021 said:

How bout collapsing the distinction between fapping and not fapping?  

How would that work?