I'm doing nofap 2022

[Someone here]

I decided to quit my masturbation and porn habit for good. As a step towards building a healthy lifestyle and not relying for my happiness on external factors. 

I deleted all my porn collections on all my devices and decided to quit for good. 

Also I might use this thread as a journal to document my journey. 

Wish me luck! 

 

Edited January 8, 2022 by Someone here

[Carl-Richard]

May I ask how often you usually fap?

[PurpleTree]

good luck

i start to feel weird after about a week of not ejaculating so the Tree can't join you guys

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

May I ask how often you usually fap?

About twice a month. 

3 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Someone here hey, can I join you? 

Sure 

[Someone here]

5 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

I start to feel weird after about a week of not ejaculating 

How do you explain why? 

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Someone here why do you want to quit masturbation as well?

Because it's unhealthy, at least for me. 

[Chew211]

Quitting porn is the main thing that'll give you benefits. 

[PurpleTree]

13 minutes ago, Someone here said:

How do you explain why? 

don't know dude, i'm probably just very sensitive to my own feelings etc.

to me it's goes something like that, after ejaculation i'm usually more tired for about two days, sometimes also more anxious (guess a dopamine thing or whatever)

then after two days i start feeling better again but then after about 8 days or so i start feeling more agitated.

[Someone here]

13 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Someone here I see. Interestingly enough I think it's the opposite for me. I have tried to quit masturbation a lot and have to the conclusion that it isn to good for my mental health at that point in life. So I plan to only quit porn for now.

For me they both lead to each other.

9 minutes ago, Chew211 said:

Quitting porn is the main thing that'll give you benefits. 

I think semen retention also has incredible benefits. 

7 minutes ago, PurpleTree said:

don't know dude, i'm probably just very sensitive to my own feelings etc.

to me it's goes something like that, after ejaculation i'm usually more tired for about two days, sometimes also more anxious (guess a dopamine thing or whatever)

then after two days i start feeling better again but then after about 8 days or so i start feeling more agitated.

I see. But that's not an excuse to stay on the habit. I'm sure with enough willpower you can fight through it. 

[Carl-Richard]

34 minutes ago, Someone here said:

About twice a month.

Wtf why the fuck would you need to do nofap then? 

[Phil777]

Let's forgive ourselves for indulging in destructive sexual behaviour in the past. In the end it was ultimately necessary to lead us to the path we are on right now. At least for me the future is looking bright. 

I wish each and every one of you the most fulfilling love and sex life with ultimate self control and multiorgasmic potential. Union with God through Sex is what we are aiming at LETS GET IT BOIS

[Someone here]

@Carl-Richard I made it clear that this habit is not healthy for me. Even once a year is still not the right thing for me to do. I'm talking about masturbation here. 

As for porn.. I think it's one of the most toxic nonsense that has been given to me. So it's a must to quit it. 

[PurpleTree]

8 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I see. But that's not an excuse to stay on the habit. I'm sure with enough willpower you can fight through it. 

Well no i'm actually ok-ish

i'm not addicted to porn or masturbation.

But i know no fap can have good benefits for some.

[happyhappy]

@Someone here

7 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Wtf why the fuck would you need to do nofap then? 

yh man...here I am jerking off several times a day lol..honestly bro, LMAO..  

and if u wanna find a new kinda porn ask me(kidding)

jokes aside, for me at least nofap only increases motivation to fap. and sexual transmutation is the alternative I see.  

 

[Vincent S]

When You Orgasm: Heavy Thoughts And Energies Gets Shaken Of From You When You Vibrate. You Are Moving The Serpent: (Just Like When You Have Kundalini Awakenings, Whether You Like It Or Not, Thats A Thing, Even Though Many Teachers Deny Such Things). 

What Is Good To Do: Is To Get To The Core Of What Is Causing You To Feel The Need To Release Heavy Thoughts, Energies, Identification, Heavy Emotions. Cut That Out From Your Life, And The Need Will Be Turned Down To A Balanced Level.

Also, Releasing Is A Need To Be Creative As Well. If Your Not Expressing Your Creative Energy: You Will Feel The Need To Release It Somehow: And Thats Usually Done The Easiest, By Ejaculation. 
Try To Find Something You Like Doing, Create Something, Be Artful, Go Out For A Run, Sing, Create Music, Paint, Journal, Write Poems…

Promising Yourself To Quit Fapping, Is Only Going To End Up In A Relapse, Next Time You Get Angry Or Upset Over Something. Or When You Get Bored. Or When You Feel Like You Haven't Been Productive Enough. Or When You Haven't Expressed Your Creativity For A While.

Also Try To Do Some Shadow-Work And Remove Your Beliefs About Fapping Being A Bad Thing.  
Just Like Anything Else In Life: When We Are Programmed To Think Something Is Bad. Or We Are Not Allowed To Do It (Religion): All This Creates Is: A Rebelling Against Restrictions, Ending Up In: Us Doing That Thing We Are Not “Allowed” To Do. 
   
Also, Maybe Start Doing It Differently: Do It Without Porn. Do It Consciously. Do It Without A Mind Or Anything Else Distracting You From Being Here And Now In The Act. Try Feeling Your Orgasms More: Notice How For A Split Second: Your Ego Doesn’t Exist. There Are No Problems, You Are Safe. You Are Complete. You Are Love. And Use Your Orgasms To Remind You Of Who Truly Are. This Will Remove Your Blockages And You Will Feel A Lot Better Than Fapping To Porn And Being Distracted By Your Thoughts About Your Desires And Fantasies. 

The Common Theme Of Not Doing Things Consciously, Is Also Noticed When Eating: When Most Of Us Have Or Are Still Eating While Doing Something Else Like Watching TV, YouTube Or Whatever: Making Us Distracted, And Eating More Than We Need, And Not Feeling Satiated Enough.   
Eat, But Eat Consciously.  
Fap, But Fap Consciously. This Will Change Our Patterns And Behaviors. And Help Us Grow And Transform Our Lives.

 

[something_else]

37 minutes ago, Vincent S said:

When You Orgasm: Heavy Thoughts And Energies Gets Shaken Of From You When You Vibrate. You Are Moving The Serpent: (Just Like When You Have Kundalini Awakenings, Whether You Like It Or Not, Thats A Thing, Even Though Many Teachers Deny Such Things). 

What Is Good To Do: Is To Get To The Core Of What Is Causing You To Feel The Need To Release Heavy Thoughts, Energies, Identification, Heavy Emotions. Cut That Out From Your Life, And The Need Will Be Turned Down To A Balanced Level.

Also, Releasing Is A Need To Be Creative As Well. If Your Not Expressing Your Creative Energy: You Will Feel The Need To Release It Somehow: And Thats Usually Done The Easiest, By Ejaculation. 
Try To Find Something You Like Doing, Create Something, Be Artful, Go Out For A Run, Sing, Create Music, Paint, Journal, Write Poems…

Promising Yourself To Quit Fapping, Is Only Going To End Up In A Relapse, Next Time You Get Angry Or Upset Over Something. Or When You Get Bored. Or When You Feel Like You Haven't Been Productive Enough. Or When You Haven't Expressed Your Creativity For A While.

Also Try To Do Some Shadow-Work And Remove Your Beliefs About Fapping Being A Bad Thing.  
Just Like Anything Else In Life: When We Are Programmed To Think Something Is Bad. Or We Are Not Allowed To Do It (Religion): All This Creates Is: A Rebelling Against Restrictions, Ending Up In: Us Doing That Thing We Are Not “Allowed” To Do. 
   
Also, Maybe Start Doing It Differently: Do It Without Porn. Do It Consciously. Do It Without A Mind Or Anything Else Distracting You From Being Here And Now In The Act. Try Feeling Your Orgasms More: Notice How For A Split Second: Your Ego Doesn’t Exist. There Are No Problems, You Are Safe. You Are Complete. You Are Love. And Use Your Orgasms To Remind You Of Who Truly Are. This Will Remove Your Blockages And You Will Feel A Lot Better Than Fapping To Porn And Being Distracted By Your Thoughts About Your Desires And Fantasies. 

The Common Theme Of Not Doing Things Consciously, Is Also Noticed When Eating: When Most Of Us Have Or Are Still Eating While Doing Something Else Like Watching TV, YouTube Or Whatever: Making Us Distracted, And Eating More Than We Need, And Not Feeling Satiated Enough.   
Eat, But Eat Consciously.  
Fap, But Fap Consciously. This Will Change Our Patterns And Behaviors. And Help Us Grow And Transform Our Lives.

 

I'm sure there are some valid points here but capitalising every word makes my brain immediately not want to read any of this fyi

2 hours ago, Someone here said:

About twice a month.

I struggle to imagine how fapping twice a month can hurt your mental health, but hey, each to their own. Going from twice a month to zero is a much easier road than a lot of dudes who jerk off twice a day would have at least

[Vincent S]

5 minutes ago, something_else said:

I'm sure there are some valid points here but capitalising every word makes my brain immediately not want to read any of this fyi

Some stupid thing I started with for no reason, like two months ago. Thanks for pointing it out. I have been dying to stop

[Norbert Somogyi]

I'm with you on this, towards a better life!

[Carl-Richard]

2 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Carl-Richard I made it clear that this habit is not healthy for me. Even once a year is still not the right thing for me to do. I'm talking about masturbation here. 

As for porn.. I think it's one of the most toxic nonsense that has been given to me. So it's a must to quit it. 

Ok good luck! 

[Salvijus]

If you’re able to do this, you will trancend the universe.

May the gods watch over you brother.

Safe journey.

Edited January 8, 2022 by Salvijus