When to end game? 35 years old

[Fandango]

I am 35 years old, when should I end game?

In my country in Europe, women after around 33 years old are likely to have kids and other issues.

Now I am having sex with 27+ years old girls. But what about when I am 38 years old?, when should you end game?

I know that you can have many relationships throughout your life, and I already had a few and a lot of sex, but if I want to have another "for a while good girlfriend" , should I settle for one not much much later than, let´s say, 37? I know it depends on countries and cultures, but do you have any thoughts on this?

I think I try to pickup younger girls to extend my time, but is it a good idea?

Of course it all depends on what you want to do, I could be having short relationships forever, but what is a good age for a man to get into a longer relationship because game is not that good anymore?

[StarStruck]

35 is the perfect age to settle down. After that it will get complicated and difficult. 

If you have status, social circle, money, you can pull it off a little longer though. 

The bottom line is this: your looks are fading, perhaps balding, so you need to compensate your age/looks with something else like I explained above. 

 

Edited December 20, 2021 by StarStruck

[hoodrow trillson]

OP, are you feeling guilt/emptiness about having casual relationships with women at 35?  Or are you actually enjoying your time and are just asking this out of curiosity to make sure you don’t make any mistakes as the years pass by?

[Fandango]

41 minutes ago, hoodrow trillson said:

OP, are you feeling guilt/emptiness about having casual relationships with women at 35?  Or are you actually enjoying your time and are just asking this out of curiosity to make sure you don’t make any mistakes as the years pass by?

I actually enjoy it, I am just long term planning

2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

35 is the perfect age to settle down. After that it will get complicated and difficult. 

If you have status, social circle, money, you can pull it off a little longer though. 

The bottom line is this: your looks are fading, perhaps balding, so you need to compensate your age/looks with something else like I explained above. 

 

I am super lucky, I am playing in prince mode

31 minutes ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Once you're nearing 40, it's generally too late to game 20 year olds and just casually sleep with them, unless you look very young for your age. They're gonna be thinking of you as their father (and not in a sexual way I'm afraid, lmao). You can still hook up with women your age though.

So, I guess, keeping on it until I am around 38 years old, dating 30-31 years old girls?

It seems like high value girls sometimes also wait the longest to get into a relationship, what do you think?

Edited December 20, 2021 by Fandango

[Terell Kirby]

It’s all up to you. Most heterosexual men in their 30s and 40s are looking to settle down with a serious wife or girlfriend.

Game is all about the intention behind it. Is it sex with no strings attached, a girlfriend, a wife, a family etc?

Our intentions change as we get older. The endpoint should be whenever the intent materializes into something real.

[Fandango]

36 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

It’s all up to you. Most heterosexual men in their 30s and 40s are looking to settle down with a serious wife or girlfriend.

Game is all about the intention behind it. Is it sex with no strings attached, a girlfriend, a wife, a family etc?

Our intentions change as we get older. The endpoint should be whenever the intent materializes into something real.

I am 35 years old and I am nowhere near wanting to settle down, I was married from 27 to 33 years old though.

My intention is to continue having multiples short term relationships with younger girls that bring passion to the other part of my life (LP, etc) and also so much knowledge. The thing is, when to buy another cow if ever?

I think is about: What is the best deal I can get? isn´t it? 

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPg9qYMjE3Q

Keep in mind settling down after a long time of short term relationships can be difficult 

[JosephKnecht]

15 minutes ago, Fandango said:

The thing is, when to buy another cow if ever?

I guess when you can't live without her milk.  

[Terell Kirby]

50 minutes ago, Fandango said:

My intention is to continue having multiples short term relationships with younger girls that bring passion to the other part of my life (LP, etc) and also so much knowledge.

Then there you go .. don’t stop gaming until you have exhausted this desire.

[Leo Gura]

You can pull 20 year olds in your 40s, no problem if you got game.

The problem will be that 20 year olds will tend to lack depth and aren't good relationship material for you.

It would be wise for you to look for a serious girlfriend in her 30s so you have more in common. Or maybe you are as clueless as a 20 year old girl? 

[Thought Art]

I’m 26, so sounds like a good time to be getting into it.

[Danioover9000]

@Fandango

4 hours ago, Fandango said:

I am 35 years old, when should I end game?

In my country in Europe, women after around 33 years old are likely to have kids and other issues.

Now I am having sex with 27+ years old girls. But what about when I am 38 years old?, when should you end game?

I know that you can have many relationships throughout your life, and I already had a few and a lot of sex, but if I want to have another "for a while good girlfriend" , should I settle for one not much much later than, let´s say, 37? I know it depends on countries and cultures, but do you have any thoughts on this?

I think I try to pickup younger girls to extend my time, but is it a good idea?

Of course it all depends on what you want to do, I could be having short relationships forever, but what is a good age for a man to get into a longer relationship because game is not that good anymore?

   Might depend on your horniness being relatively the same. Although yes, as you get older, you get less horny over time.

[Fandango]

57 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You can pull 20 year olds in your 40s, no problem if you got game.

The problem will be that 20 year olds will tend to lack depth and aren't good relationship material for you.

It would be wise for you to look for a serious girlfriend in her 30s so you have more in common. Or maybe you are as clueless as a 20 year old girl? 

But I think I don´t want to look like her dad either. Agree on the rest

What is your long term plan? are you looking for a serious girlfriend in her 30s? I mean, what other wise options do I have?

I wish I could freeze time for a few years just now heheh

[Fandango]

1 hour ago, Danioover9000 said:

@Fandango

   Might depend on your horniness being relatively the same. Although yes, as you get older, you get less horny over time.

I am still horny af

The thing is, in my country, girls from, let´s say, 25 to 29 years old are at the perfect point to be having sex a lot, have independence, experience different sex things, feel free to fuck, want to have experiences, are spontaneous, etc... how to give up that?

[hoodrow trillson]

3 hours ago, Fandango said:

I actually enjoy it, I am just long term planning

I am super lucky, I am playing in prince mode

So, I guess, keeping on it until I am around 38 years old, dating 30-31 years old girls?

It seems like high value girls sometimes also wait the longest to get into a relationship, what do you think?

Okay, that was the answer I was looking for.

If you’re able to get with 27 year olds and younger, then I say continue living your life as you please.

(a little blackpill here) It seems that you are one of the few men in their 30s that doesn’t look like shit or someone’s dad.  I’m guessing you had a baby face when you were in your 20s and now years later, it’s paying you in dividends lol. 

Most men in their 30s can’t get with women in their 20s without flashing money one way or another.  Or being incredibly predatory in nature.  If these women like YOU for YOU— then it’s a no brainer.  Live life man, we have one life to live.  Just don’t break hearts for no reason and be clear with your intentions and have fun!

Let me put it this way:  Say you settled down now with someone out of fear of being alone for example—when you’re in your 50s and realize you still love women—you would KILL to be 35 again and single.  

The icing on the cake is having the freedom to do what you want AND you can take your time finding the one woman you truly want to be with emotionally.  “Settling down” is such a risky move since most couples end up getting divorced or cheating on each other.  You want to live that life for 20+ years?  Take it from someone who’s single and gets laid and my married friends are fucking miserable and tell me how lucky I am lol.

 

[Fandango]

I look much younger than my peers, I have a lot of hair and I am fit, it is even shoking to me. Because of that, in a way, it is easier for my to get younger girls.

I have a huge dick. I feel like a unicorn and I am very conscious of it

I have been thinking about this for a long time because I think it is important to plan it somehow

[Fandango]

14 minutes ago, hoodrow trillson said:

Okay, that was the answer I was looking for.

If you’re able to get with 27 year olds and younger, then I say continue living your life as you please.

(a little blackpill here) It seems that you are one of the few men in their 30s that doesn’t look like shit or someone’s dad.  I’m guessing you had a baby face when you were in your 20s and now years later, it’s paying you in dividends lol. 

Most men in their 30s can’t get with women in their 20s without flashing money one way or another.  Or being incredibly predatory in nature.  If these women like YOU for YOU— then it’s a no brainer.  Live life man, we have one life to live.  Just don’t break hearts for no reason and be clear with your intentions and have fun!

Let me put it this way:  Say you settled down now with someone out of fear of being alone for example—when you’re in your 50s and realize you still love women—you would KILL to be 35 again and single.  

The icing on the cake is having the freedom to do what you want AND you can take your time finding the one woman you truly want to be with emotionally.  “Settling down” is such a risky move since most couples end up getting divorced or cheating on each other.  You want to live that life for 20+ years?  Take it from someone who’s single and gets laid and my married friends are fucking miserable and tell me how lucky I am lol.

 

I feel good being alone, 0 fears of being alone in my 50s. It is a problem that people want to be with me too much and I have to limit that. I feel magnetic because of my development

[Leo Gura]

39 minutes ago, Fandango said:

But I think I don´t want to look like her dad either.

Who gives a fuck. Do what aligns with your love.

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What is your long term plan? are you looking for a serious girlfriend in her 30s? I mean, what other wise options do I have?

I will have a deep girlfriend, but until then I will have fun and build myself. She will meet me organically through the work I do on myself and the love I unleash within myself.

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I wish I could freeze time for a few years just now heheh

You don't need to freeze time. Just do you to the hilt. Stop wasting time hesitating and second-guessing yourself.

[Striving for more]

4 hours ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

Once you're nearing 40, it's generally too late to game 20 year olds and just casually sleep with them, unless you look very young for your age. They're gonna be thinking of you as their father (and not in a sexual way I'm afraid, lmao). You can still hook up with women your age though.

Many examples suggest this isn't true though? 

Leonardo DiCaprio started dating his hot GF & she was 22 years old. He's fat & also looks his age. 

I will mostly approach young woman but tbh if a hot woman is 60 years old, I would still sleep with her, yes I will repeat that no fucks given, I like them MILFS. 

So why couldn't a young girl be into a 40 year old guy? doesn't make sense to me. Men lose their virlity slower & value can increase with age too. 

There's many high value guys with girlfriends much younger than them. This has happened for Millenia. 

I'm saying this prospectively because when I am 40, I still will want access to women of all ages.

Edited December 20, 2021 by Striving for more

[Leo Gura]

Girls don't care about your age. All they care about is how you make them feel and how boss you are.

If you are boss, she will be happy to sleep with you into the 50s and beyond.

The deeper issue is that you shouldn't just be chasing youth. Learn to appreciate what a more mature girl offers.

What you really want is not youth but depth of love.