When to end game? 35 years old

[Thought Art]

@Leo Gura Oh, really?

Edited December 20, 2021 by Thought Art

[hoodrow trillson]

23 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Girls don't care about your age. All they care about is how you make them feel and how boss you are.

If you are boss, she will be happy to sleep with you into the 50s and beyond.

The deeper issue is that you shouldn't just be chasing youth. Learn to appreciate what a more mature girl offers.

What you really want is not youth but depth of love.

Agree but also be aware that there are some mentally mature women in their 20s too.  Probably more common than a woman in her 30s without any baggage  

[Joel3102]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I will have a deep girlfriend, but until then I will have fun and build myself. She will meet me organically through the work I do on myself and the love I unleash within myself.

Do you plan on marriage/family at some point? Realistically having a serious girlfriend will either end in that, or a breakup that’s gonna sting 

[Leo Gura]

9 minutes ago, Joel3102 said:

Do you plan on marriage/family at some point?

No

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Realistically having a serious girlfriend will either end in that, or a breakup that’s gonna sting 

Not important when you got love.

Your marriage will fall apart anyway. Now that will sting.

[somegirl]

42 minutes ago, hoodrow trillson said:

Agree but also be aware that there are some mentally mature women in their 20s too.  Probably more common than a woman in her 30s without any baggage 

Love how guys just count on the narrative of "but there are some very mature 20 year olds, even moreso than girls in their 30s!".

Guys. That is an exception to the rule. Most girls that young are NOT more mature than their age.

They are as mature as you would expect them to be at their age, nothing less, nothing more.

Edited December 20, 2021 by somegirl

[Thought Art]

Lol mature people in their 20s don't kid me

[Lyubov]

Settle down when it feels right for yourself and feel it's worthy to commit to. When you feel like you have worked through enough psychological stuff, when your T levels have dipped some with age maybe, when you have worked through painful/dysfunctional beliefs, explored your desires fully, etc. There may even come some sacrifice and compromise still when it comes to settling down cause a couple of these may not have had a book end to them. No one here can tell you when the right time is for you. Just shed some light on the various factors needed for settling down and prioritizing / deepening relationship love. 

[Yarco]

First make sure that you can. Just because you're good at game, that doesn't mean you'll be a good committed long-term partner. It's two different skillsets. It might take you a few years and several long-term relationships to figure it out.

Eventually you hit a point where you're just the creepy old guy. No women want to sleep with you, and it's too late to really get into a good relationship except with widows and divorcees, even then they'll have a lot of baggage of their own.

That last decade, or two, or three, is gonna be pretty lonely if you wait too long. But maybe the sex now is worth it. At the same time, you could get married and then your wife dies of cancer early and you're in the exact same position.

[something_else]

6 hours ago, Medhansh said:

@Leo Gura How does the age thing apply if I am younger than a girl?

For eg, if I am 19 and the girl is 21 or 22, is it worth a shot?

I haven't flirted even once with a girl older than me. It's a bit scary.

I think any time anyone in history has ever asked "is it worth a shot" the answer is yes. Like what do you have to lose....

Yea girls will typically go for slightly older guys but that doesn't mean they will never sleep with a younger guy, all depends on circumstances. My dad was a few years younger than my mum. I've slept with girls up to 8 years older than me. I've spoken to a 22 year old girl who was talking about sleeping with a 19 year old dude on their first date recently actually. It happens

[universe]

Settle for nothing less than what you want.

Do you really have a desire to settle, to form a long lasting relationship, to maybe start a family?

If not then don't even bother. Don't let society tell you how to live your life.

[something_else]

17 minutes ago, Medhansh said:

Do I have to something different for older girls? Or go on with my regular approach?

I don't know, it will depend on the girl. Just go for it, do whatever you would normally and see what happens

 

[Fandango]

My conclusions:

- Continue game indefinitely but I will target girls in their 30s so I have more in common with them. Aiming for short or medium term relationships, basically screening girls in their 30s looking for one that is worth having a longer relationship.

- Continue developing myself so I continue increasing my value/game

On 21/12/2021 at 0:28 AM, Leo Gura said:

Not important when you got love.

Can you elavorate further on that? Do you mean that break-ups in short realtionships are not bad but even good?

[Lyubov]

Break ups are painful but always lead to growth. The relationship will eventually end in the highest sense that one partner will physically pass on before the other if both are so lucky to have a marriage last this long. That can be very painful to acknowledge but also lots of wisdom and love to be found there. Lots of gratitude and acceptance to be found in recognizing and resting with this. Relationships can really help a person accept they are aging and life is changing. Lots of beauty and joy to be found here and I’m glad people get the opportunity to grow through relationships. 

Edited December 22, 2021 by Lyubov

[Leo Gura]

14 hours ago, Medhansh said:

@Leo Gura How does the age thing apply if I am younger than a girl?

For eg, if I am 19 and the girl is 21 or 22, is it worth a shot?

I haven't flirted even once with a girl older than me. It's a bit scary.

Makes no difference.

Girls will sleep with you regardless of age if you run solid game.

You can sleep with girls in their 30s when you're in your 20s.

2 hours ago, Fandango said:

Can you elavorate further on that? Do you mean that break-ups in short realtionships are not bad but even good?

I mean, you don't need a legal contract when you got someone you love.

[ZenSwift]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You can sleep with girls in their 30s when you're in your 20s.

At last my dreams can come true! I love older women!

Edited December 23, 2021 by ZenSwift

[ZenSwift]

On 12/20/2021 at 2:22 PM, Striving for more said:

Yes I will repeat that no fucks given, I like them MILFS. 

[hoodrow trillson]

25 minutes ago, ZenSwift said:

At last my dreams can come true! I love older women! (I'm 21)

I slept with a 33 year old hot ass woman when I was 21.  Best decision ever and I will forever cherish those memories  Do it!!!  Women are beautiful 

[Lyubov]

I’m not into older women than me. Slept with a 24 yo when I was 21. Lied and said I was 25 lol. This was several years ago. I’m 30 now. Not knocking anyone. Women of all ages are beautiful. Prefer a younger partner though. Want to leave her a big pile of cash when I die lol.

Edited December 22, 2021 by Lyubov

[Gregory1]

12 hours ago, Lyubov said:

I’m not into older women than me. Slept with a 24 yo when I was 21. Lied and said I was 25 lol. This was several years ago. I’m 30 now. Not knocking anyone. Women of all ages are beautiful. Prefer a younger partner though. Want to leave her a big pile of cash when I die lol.

Wtf