My penis size holds me back

[ROOBIO]

Ok little personal. I  have been figuring out what is holding me back with woman.

I have come to the conclusion its my penis size.

Its 5.5 inchs long erect with just over 4 inch diameter so not girthy. When I game specially in winter it really shrivels up and makes me blow it after getting with a girl on a night out.

Any suggestions

Edited November 28, 2021 by ROOBIO

[bloomer]

@ROOBIO

Sounds like you just an insecure, have bad body self image and that affects your self esteem. Men care more about their dick size then women. 5.5 isn't the end of the world. You can still satisfy a woman sexually with that member. Have some self respect. You're holding yourself back not your dick. Watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_vDcOAHI4U&ab_channel=AlexanderGrace

[Shin]

You're in the average, it's all in your head.

Stop watching porn, those penises aren't real

[Jacob Morres]

Trauma work perhaps 

[Thought Art]

Girls care less than you think

5.5 Inches is a good sized Cock. Enjoy it.

[Loba]

You're average, you're fine, don't worry so much.  The first guy I slept with was about that size and he was just fine.  He did it better than my ex with a big, thick one - he didn't know how to use it and it just ended up being a pain-stick about 60 percent of the time. 

 

[Shin]

The only thing that matters in sex, is how much connection there is between the lovers.

Just care more about her pleasure and feelings more than yours, whether she is a ons or your gf.

Everything else is secondary.

[mivafofa]

I never understood why is the world so fixated around big sized dicks. My best experience were with smaller or average at most. The big one hurts - I can't move because I'm almost paralyzed half of time. BJs are a nightmare. No offense to those who have big ones though, but it hurts more than it feels good

[Federico del pueblo]

13 hours ago, ROOBIO said:

Ok little personal. I  have been figuring out what is holding me back with woman.

I have come to the conclusion its my penis size.

Its 5.5 inchs long erect with just over 4 inch diameter so not girthy. When I game specially in winter it really shrivels up and makes me blow it after getting with a girl on a night out.

Any suggestions

So what specifically do you need suggestions for? Nobody will change your penis size so you can only change your mindset around it.

[The0Self]

If you're very masculine and dominant or at least very aroused in sex, 5.5 inches will likely seem big to most women. Mine was about the same. A little bigger now (well, much thicker, and maybe 6.1 inches long) from jelqing, which takes some time but actually works. I eventually stopped jelqing and I had totally forgotten that I used to be very self conscious about it. Now if anything it seems to be the perfect size. Apparently the bathmate works even better than jelqing -- basically those who tried bathmate and jelqing found bathmate to work a lot better. Derek from MPMD did a video on it. It actually does work so don't listen to people saying you can't change the size lol. Never tried bathmate myself but jelqing definitely worked for me and all I hear is that the bathmate thing works even better.

I could make women squirt over and over without even using my hands, even when well under 6 inches, so I really don't think that's functionally small -- it just looks small relative to pornstars. Just be grateful you don't have a 10 inch, which is probably too big for many women to enjoy.

My intuition is that the shape matters, especially a larger head, which jelqing actually grows the most.

Being very sexual and masculine, or having a confident mindset, or just being generally good at sex, are each (even one by itself) far more significant factors than having a large dick. Now if you were like <4 inches idk that might be an impediment but even then it's nothing that can't be overcome.

Not to mention when penetrating deeply a 5.5 is probably going in almost 7 inches anyway. If I pressed the skin around the penis toward me it was about 7 inches, but just over 6 when just measuring normally from base to tip. Girth is more important so if it's an issue for you, that can be worked on as the girth is the main thing jelqing and bathmate improve.

Someone with a 4 inch penis is like a year and a half of daily diligent jelqing away from your size, which I'm pretty sure is exactly the national average in the USA, so cheer up. 

But yeah, if the size really does bother you, you actually can grow it a significant degree. It's not something like height that you basically just have to accept. I'm surprised more guys with small or average size (who are unhappy with their size) don't know about this.

Edited November 29, 2021 by The0Self

[hoodrow trillson]

4 hours ago, The0Self said:

 

Not to mention when penetrating deeply a 5.5 is probably going in almost 7 inches anyway. If I pressed the skin around the penis toward me it was about 7 inches, but just over 6 when just measuring normally from base to tip. Girth is more important so if it's an issue for you, that can be worked on as the girth is the main thing jelqing and bathmate improve.

 

lol, this means your true size is closer to 7 inches, not 6.  The average penis size backed up by science, is 5.1" erect.  

That's measured by pushing in the fatpad with a ruler all the to the pelvic bone, and measuring to the tip while erect.  That's the only scientific way of measurement because people vary by weight--which can visually shrink or elongate your dick but your actual penis size remains unchanged (from pelvic bone to tip).  

This is how scientists/urologists get the average measurement accurately.  

If you're measuring visually what you see to the tip--you're absolutely going to mentally hurt yourselves lmao because that's not accurate. 

[Shin]

Op, just memorize that guys that are very experimented with women can make them have an orgasm without even touching them.

Do you really think your penis matters in that case ?

[HypnoticMagician]

I don't think all women care about the size of your penis. There are a lot of repulsive guys with a lot of disgustingly swelled muscles with terrible stinking big cock which I don't find attractive. So it depends on the tastes and preferences of the woman you have sex with

[Leo Gura]

Shut up and go approach.