Anything fundamentally wrong with buying prostitutes, sometimes, for sex only?

[rnd]

Speaking of  buying prostitues now and then while also doing pickup:
 

Namely, not bying them all the time, not instead of dating with normal girls, but sometimes.
And not the ones on the street who suck dick for $5, not old crones or dirty ones.
And not the expensive ones, with whom you'd go out and brag.
And not even the ones who you date with for money, trying to buy her and simpathy.

No.

I mean  the ones whom you a) find attractive and b) whom you can experiment in sex with.

Will you be able to do experiments in sex  with most, if not all, of  girls? Probably you won't, or at least only to a certain degree.

I see more  upsides than downsides. I've done it in the past, as well as pickup.  With some sex was very good, with others  not so.

Do you see any downsides? Are there fundamentally wrong things about this?

 

And overall, it's better to be Zorba Greek who sometimes fucks prostitutes and enjoys it, than a bitter moralist-pickuper who considers himself pure.

P.S. those who've never done it - don't rush to tell me your *theory* here for why that's bad.

Edited November 26, 2021 by rnd

[Shin]

Why would it be bad ?

[rnd]

4 hours ago, Shin said:

Why would it be bad ?

Pickup communities, mostly, say so, or avoid to discuss it.
And people generally demonize it too.

[Javfly33]

If you see more ups and downs, go for it I guess.

I just think getting sex for a man it's a part of a growth process, so if you "buy it", it's like you are cheating. 

[Leo Gura]

It's just pathetic.

Rather than developing yourself into an attractive man you are paying to remain unattractive.

[mmKay]

@rnd if you're like a 31yr old virgin you may  as well get it over with if if would make you any less anxious around grills. 

Otherwise just lower your standards for s GF and explore sexuallity sitht her. 

 

[rnd]

No. As I've explained - for the purpose  of experimenting in sex, and in ways that a normal girl would never be willing to do it with.

Edited November 28, 2021 by rnd

[Iesu]

For some women in London 1888 meant Jack the Ripper was your client tell. 

prostitutes are a no go man. Cmon 

[Iesu]

@rnd @Leo Gura escort girls and brothels are no go as well. 
We shouldn’t even be having this conversation 

[Shin]

55 minutes ago, rnd said:

No. As I've explained - for the purpose  of experimenting in sex, and in ways that a normal girl would never be willing to do it with.

The thing is, the best sex is about how to connect emotionally.

How can you do that with a prostitute ?

She doesn't care about you, and already had sex with several guys before you too.

[rnd]

19 hours ago, Shin said:

She doesn't care about you, and already had sex with several guys before you too.

Firstly,  have you experienced in practise  what you're talking about -- that they, prostitues, don't?
Everyone of them? Majority? What's the percentage?

And how do you know?

Secondly, those who have multiple clients per day, indeed, logicallly,  don't care. Well, I wouldn't go to those.

Not every girl who sells sex is created equal, and there may very thin border between a "normal" girl and the one who sells sex.

There're normal girls out there who don't give a shit about men either -- worse than any prostitute can be.

Edited November 29, 2021 by rnd

[rnd]

@Iesu or, perhaps, you're being, as well as @Leo Gura, too close-minded here.

 

Brotherls and prostitues there are no go, I agree. Why would I pay for that expensive nonsense?

And no go are also those who work profesionally and attend multiple clients clients per day, every day.
I don't mean those.

Edited November 29, 2021 by rnd

[Arcangelo]

Psychedelics  kinda ruined pros for me. If you're orange and living in the 3D world they are meh/OK.

If you're green and living in the 4D world, hoping to ascend to 5D, you just can't.

I certainly burned through that karma.

Chakras, chi, auras and sexual energy cords are very real.

 

Edited November 29, 2021 by Arcangelo
kinda

[Hardkill]

On 11/27/2021 at 7:53 AM, mmKay said:

@rnd if you're like a 31yr old virgin you may  as well get it over with if if would make you any less anxious around grills. 

Otherwise just lower your standards for s GF and explore sexuallity sitht her. 

 

Yeah, I agree. However, if you are going to pay a prostitute then it should still be done just as a one-off only for the purposes of losing your V-card as a late virgin and then never do it again.

[Iesu]

5 hours ago, rnd said:

@Iesu or, perhaps, you're being, as well as @Leo Gura, too close-minded here.

 

Brotherls and prostitues there are no go, I agree. Why would I pay for that expensive nonsense?

And no go are also those who work profesionally and attend multiple clients clients per day, every day.
I don't mean those.

Like I told another guy this site is for enlightenment and self transcendence. Not shenanigans 

[something_else]

On 28/11/2021 at 9:48 PM, rnd said:

No. As I've explained - for the purpose  of experimenting in sex, and in ways that a normal girl would never be willing to do it with.

Some 'normal' girls are into some crazy shit

Most girls are probably kinkier than you under the right circumstances

There's almost nothing that can beat exploring a girls sexuality with her, letting her dirtiest thoughts and fantasies loose

You're not gonna get that from a hooker

The best sexual experimentation comes from experimenting with the emotional highs of what you're doing rather than physical sensation. Example:

"I'm enjoying this because of the polarity between us all night, the chase, the back and forth, the story, and the conclusion where I drag you back to my apartment, hold you by your hair and and rail you hard against my wall until you collapse in a puddle of your own wetness on my bed"

Is way hotter than "I paid you so can you stand against my wall while I put my dick inside you and then leave when I cum"

Even if you do the kinkiest acts you can imagine with a hooker, I can't imagine there's anywhere near the emotional charge that there is with a 'normal' girl

Sorry for the graphic detail, was needed to make a point 

[rnd]

On 29/11/2021 at 9:00 PM, Iesu said:

Like I told another guy this site is for enlightenment and self transcendence. Not shenanigans 

A way to divert from answering the question -- to say "this site isn't for discussing that topic." They what are you doing in this topic?

[rnd]

On 29/11/2021 at 10:51 PM, something_else said:

There's almost nothing that can beat exploring a girls sexuality with her, letting her dirtiest thoughts and fantasies loose

The who "her"? Rebecca? Linda? Nataly? Your neighbour? Who "her"?
Does every man by default meets that "her" who'll be willing to experiment in sex however he likes? How often? What if he hasn't yet? And it's impossible to know when and whether. Ha?

 

On 29/11/2021 at 10:51 PM, something_else said:

You're not gonna get that from a hooker

Do you have  experience that proves that "not"? If you don't, you should keep your month shut and mind open.

 

A theoretician  explains a practishioner how things "really" work. In theory.

"Nooo, you don't understand. It doesn't matter that you've experienced that on practise. I know the theory! The theory! Therefore I'm the one who may teach you"

Edited December 3, 2021 by rnd