19 year old man approaching older women

[thenondualtankie]

From what I gather, women prefer men who are more mature than them and I feel like this means older than them. I'm a 19 year old dude with zero sexual experience so I'm literally in the opposite end of the spectrum.

If I have a night out then most women will be older than me. Even if it's an event hosted by my university most girls will be 1-2 years above my age. How should I deal with more mature / older women than myself? Should I just approach them the same as anyone else and therefore eventually build up that maturity? I just feel more awkward about approaching women older than me haha

[Javfly33]

In my short experiencing approaching when I was 18-19, You shouldn't have problems with 1-2 years above than you.

If they are +4 years above than you then it gets more challenging definitely

[something_else]

Funny you mention it, on Saturday I approached a 29 year old on the lonely walk back from the club (I'm 22 and I've never been with anyone more than 6mths older than me) and pulled her in an empty office building at 4am 20 minutes later

I'd had a really really shit night for various reasons and I felt terrible, which gave me this 'fuck it' attitude that creates a really bizarre kind of confidence that can be very magnetic. I actually thought she was closer to 25 but she was clearly at least several years older than me

But bragging over, lol. This was genuinely a really good experience for dropping any expectations/beliefs about how women behave. I would have never thought that a late 20s women would fuck a 22 year old for the exact same reasons you gave but all sorts of weird and unexpected things will happen if you just try new things and drop your expectations

You are right that as a general rule girls will go for guys more mature than them but there are totally exceptions and you should really just go for it and see what you can do rather than get stuck in your head worrying too much about this stuff

[thenondualtankie]

@something_else I think that's the answer I needed.

[SamC]

1 minute ago, thenondualtankie said:

@something_else I think that's the answer I needed.

Yeah that was really @something_else XDXD

Seriosly tho, thats super insipiring. 

[Leo Gura]

Women are not attracted by logical facts! Age is a logical fact. It doesn't matter. Just make her feel good and she will get attracted.

[Nahm]

@thenondualtankie

Just be a gentleman. Compliment her, hold the door open for her, have dinner ready by 4pm, offer to hold her cane while she gets in the car, etc. 

[thenondualtankie]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Women are not attracted by logical facts! Age is a logical fact. It doesn't matter. Just make her feel good and she will get attracted.

@Leo Gura Holy shit I really need to think about how I apply your teachings to different things that you don't explicitly mention. I remember you making this point and agreeing with it blah blah but it never even registered for me to apply it to this example here.