Game/dating for nom hetero sexual people

[JJfromSwitzerland]

This is a serious question, please answer it seriousely.

As a hetero sexual male, I only experienced dating in male to female interaction.

How does dating and attraction work with lesbians? If women are into status, what about lesbian women? That also must mean, that not all the hetero sexual women are into status. Also in my experience men are mostly active in approaching, kissing first, leading to sex and so on. What about for two women, how does that work?

And then as well for homosexual men? I have a few gay friends and it usually goes very quickly towards sex and not much playing around and game and so on.

So I'd appreciate the answer of homosexual people on the forum, just out of curiousity.