What kind of girl do you want?

[yolosmoothie]

I'm curious to hear your experience and perspective.

Here is what kind of girl I want

I don't know. If I think about it, I can list some criteria like being open, feminine, playful, authentic, etc. Of course I also want to be physically attracted if we are talking about sexual and romantic intimacy. But the deeper answer for me is I don't know. I want to live from the heart, and the heart works in mysterious ways. It moves trough intuition, not logic. It just feels, resonates and knows in an unexplainable way

 

[yolosmoothie]

Maybe I need to be red-pilled, or black-pilled. Maybe I'm just a beta chode ?

Edited November 19, 2021 by yolosmoothie

[PurpleTree]

how about what kind of partner?

so it's all inclusive

we had that topic like 3 weeks ago already

 

 

personally a good friend that i'm physically attracted to

who's fun and honest

[yolosmoothie]

@PurpleTree Haha yes, all can share.

Do you know what makes you physically attracted to someone? 

[PurpleTree]

1 minute ago, yolosmoothie said:

@PurpleTree Haha yes, all can share.

Do you know what makes you physically attracted to someone? 

in some ways i'm a sucker for beauty

like silly symmetrical faces and so on

but also many other things which aren't classical "beauty" i can find very beautiful and interesting in terms of looks

and in terms of character i also find many things inspiring and beautiful

like if a woman can be funny at times or classy, loving, good hearted, gives off a vibe of pride things along those lines

[yolosmoothie]

Insightful response. That does resonate for me too. And of course if she's flirting with me, I'll be much more likely to be attracted to her. 

Edited November 19, 2021 by yolosmoothie

[yolosmoothie]

I also really like the way women move. If she can move well on the dancefloor, I find that sexy. 

Edited November 19, 2021 by yolosmoothie

[StarStruck]

Hot, blonde, funny, submissive, bubbly, intelligent, and ambitious. 

[Gesundheit2]

I've kind of given up on personality traits, since most people are shit and unstable, anyway. It's only a matter of time until a person shows their true colors. This applies to friends, too.

Right now, just looking for sexy, because it's stable and guaranteed at least.

Edited November 19, 2021 by Gesundheit2

[StarStruck]

@Gesundheit2 true. That is why I want a moldable girl who can be taught. 

[Salvijus]

34 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

@Gesundheit2 true. That is why I want a moldable girl who can be taught. 

Wow, if I was feminist this would really trigger me. That's very disgusting attitude bro... 

Sorry to say this ?

Edited November 19, 2021 by Salvijus

[PurpleTree]

22 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

@Gesundheit2 true. That is why I want a moldable girl who can be taught. 

what are you going to teach though?

[Loba]

@Salvijus He's also looking for a teen.... .... ... .. ... so a youth to "mold".  Gross, right?

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Let people mold themselves, who are you to be talking about "molding" a young girl, seriously, wtf is wrong with you?  Stay away from women... please.

A teen to groom... basically.. is what you want.

Edited November 19, 2021 by Loba

[Nos7algiK]

A woman who is authentic and shares a similar belief system as me, knowing thy self as God. But, someone's who persona differs than mine because two of the same person would be boring. But, I've found all of this with my current partner so I'm a bit biased lol.

But, this is what I wanted because I know who I am inside. I wouldn't say the knowing of what I wanted is a mystery but it was a treasure I couldn't go out and search for.

Edited November 19, 2021 by Nos7algiK

[StarStruck]

15 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Wow, if I was feminist this would really trigger me. That's very disgusting attitude bro... 

?

Perhaps I chose the wrong words. I prefer somebody who is willing to work on the relationship. Some people simply don't want to improve (!). I'm constantly working on myself so I don't expect anything from the other that I'm not putting on the table.

[Jacob Morres]

Healthy character 

Integrous  

Fun loving 

Spiritual

Those are probably my only non negoitables. I think rest I can feel it out 

Edited November 19, 2021 by Jacob Morres

[SgtPepper]

Intelligent, kind, beautiful, thoughtful, and ambitious about her projects/hobbies.

Good with children and gets along with my family.

Comes from a good household.

Has similar values to mine like being healthy.

Can embrace going to a party, being active, or a quiet evening. Can join me on my personal affairs. Has enough going on in her life so she is not clingy 24/7.

Not deceptive, not vindictive, and can admit wrongness and apologize. Can hold a conversation and is not like talking to a wall lol.

 

Edited November 19, 2021 by SgtPepper

[ValiantSalvatore]

I created a love map that shows in detail what kind of girl I want and enjoy for example.

Authentic, spiritual, compassionate, open-minded, into outdoors activities, enjoys beign sexual and some other traits. I will not reveal everything my first date hitted the exact spot for my love map. Did not work out unfortunately.

[Preety_India]

OK let me try this. Let me think I'm a male for a minute. 

So if I were a male, what kind of a woman would I want —

Kind 

Loving 

Funny 

Warm 

Affectionate 

Genuine

Loyal 

Committed 

Emotional 

 

[8Ball]

Loving, kind and open minded. And not nagging all the time. Just like my woman is like.