Help: Next Step to set up date? (Pics Included)

[EntheogenTruthSeeker]

“How is X day at X time?” 
 

I don’t have a place of my own. Seems like she does. how do I logistically set something up? Just upfront be like, “let’s grab some tea at X shop first and go from there?” (Hoping we can go to her place?)
 

She also said she had a “boyfriend” however, this seemed like a shit test she had to put up in front of friends to not look like a slut or something. 
 

The look in her eyes and the way she proactively was touching me, initiating texting back, all was showing signs of medium-high attraction. 
 

Texts from end of party Saturday Halloween party until this morning: 

 

[flowboy]

Are you stuck because you don't want her to know that you don't live by yourself?

Honesty is better and saves brain cycles.

"Meet 8pm at yours tomorrow?"

I don't think you really want to have tea with her somewhere else. Go for what you want, then negotiate.

Edited November 5, 2021 by flowboy

[Raze]

https://www.davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/

try the date video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OZebLs6v7o

 

[EntheogenTruthSeeker]

@flowboy “getting home from a weekend trip and going to bed shortly after” she said, about me asking: “8pm Sunday your place?”. 
 

Ask her When is a good time for you? 
 

or should I wait a couple days and spontaneously text her if she’s down again? I fucking hate texting logistics 

[flowboy]

That is a very honest and practical answer. I think she's cooperating with you and open to setting a date.

Give her two more options, not too far away. It's better to give options because it's less resistance to just pick one. Asking someone else to come up with options is a bigger ask (more mental effort required)

And teasingly comment about her weekend trip, if you can come up with something. Something contextual to what you talked about. "Weekend trip", sure sure. That's what I would also say if I had just been on an assassination mission with my KGB friends Don't worry, I won't tell. This example is contextual to a Russian girl I knew, and what we talked about. Hopefully you can come up with something that makes sense in your context.

Being too fixated on setting the date to listen to anything else she tells you is a turn-off. That's how girls screen out guys who are too needy to get the date. They don't respond to anything else she says. I've made this mistake many times.

But don't get lost in conversations over text. Address what she gave you in a fun way, but steer it back to meeting.

14 hours ago, EntheogenTruthSeeker said:

or should I wait a couple days and spontaneously text her if she’s down again?

No, that would be killing the nice flow you have, and probably not getting it back.

Edited November 6, 2021 by flowboy