self-actualization Vs Tribe

[ArcticGong]

Self-actualization or a tight-knit tribe? I understand that real life doesn't pose this dichotomy, meaning that you can have self-actualization and a tribe-like family. I see that most of our societal problems stem from our lack of connectedness to either meaning i.e self-actualization, or a lack of tribe, belonging to something. I understand that tribalism can become a problem in society too, however, belonging is a deep human need.  

Another example of togetherness is https://www.instagram.com/p/CVs4KBRNkOk7gViBCAWQpMCR67Gh6_llOwtzIM0/

What are your thoughts on this?