How To Find Wingmen

[Leo Gura]

I know some of you guys here are struggling to learn game and struggling to find wingmen.

Here's a resource that lists Telegram groups for wingmen in every city in the world:

https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/

Scroll down the list to find your city.

Learning game solo as a newbie is nearly impossible, so make sure you make use of wings. Just be careful when selecting your wingman that you don't use him as a crutch to avoid approaching girls. Bad wings can be distractions more than help. Your wingman must be committed to going out consistently and approaching, not just standing around talking shit.

And once you get comfortable with wingmen, start going out solo a bit too, until eventually you can solo any venue.

This resource is to be used responsibly to help you learn game. Do not abuse your new-gained powers for unethical or devilish dating activity. Reduce harm and manipulation as much as possible. Be ware that most of your wings will be deeply stuck in stage Orange and that mindset will rub off on you. This isn't exactly high-consciousness stuff, but it's better than being an Incel.

If you are starved for sex and feeling depressed and lonely about it, start learning game and going out consistently. Do not be inactive as the problem will not magically solve itself.

[SamC]

@Leo Gura I am unbelievably grateful for this Leo! Thank you

[Hello from Russia]

WoW

[Federico del pueblo]

Amazing resource! Thanks!

[PurpleTree]

nicee 

let's see how many excuses me and my ego finds not to try it

i'm too old

i'm too fatigued

those guys are weird/misogynist 

social anxiety

covid

[Leo Gura]

@PurpleTree Don't forget you're also too young, too short, too tall, too fat, too skinny, too pimply, too hairy, not hairy enough....

Re: Covid

I was at a packed Vegas club a few days ago. It was packed like a sardine can, no masks, people making out and hooking up left and right. The parties are back in full force.

Before you make out with a girl, just ask her if she has Covid

[Lyubov]

I actually have a good friend which originally was a "wing man" I met online several years ago. Oddly enough the most help we have gotten from each other is just sharing insights about women and inner world stuff. For more practical stuff we would go out during the day and do alright getting numbers but our conversations in general about dating and relationships I found most helpful. Basically all other wing men I've met have been jokers and clowns. I wouldn't take most of the guys yall meet through these groups too seriously. 

[Hello from Russia]

Lol, Moscow group is full of foreigners trying to get some russian pussy

[Leo Gura]

Every city I've gamed in I had found amazing wings.

Dallas, Austin, Vegas

It's worth looking for good guys.

I learned so much from good wings. I basically couldn't have started without them.

Some cities will be a lot better than others. If your city sucks, seriously consider moving.

For international cities, yeah, this resource may not be as good because it's on an English website. You might have to find more local resources in your language.

But also don't discounter foreigners. You can meet some awesome wings who are traveling around the world and dropping by your city for a week or a month. Still worth learning from them. Some of them could be really good.

[Tudo]

1 hour ago, Hello from Russia said:

Lol, Moscow group is full of foreigners trying to get some russian pussy

São Paulo too lol

[LordFall]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/

Second he Game Global recommendation, I'm in a lot of these groups as well. Ice(the guy that runs it) is pretty well connected in the game community and he is a pretty cool dude. He took over the mantle from the RSD Inner Circles when they shut those downs to get away from their game connotations.

Leo is 100% right, if you're a shy/introverted/socially inexperienced dude, you HAVE to learn from men more experienced than you. That is a ritual going back to tribal times that we've lost in modern society for some reason. 

 

 

This is from my first Inner Circle meeting many moons ago. Shot the shit with the boys at a restaurant and they took me out to a club for the first time. I think I went clubbing 50+ times before being somewhat comfortable inside of one, good times. For the ones saying clubbing is not their scene; I'm an INTP that was addicted to playing League of Legends 12 hours a day in those days. Clubs are my natural enemy and I still went 2-3 times a week.

 I wouldn't be the person I am today if I hadn't been to that meeting, really thankful to those guys. I still talk to some of them to this day and this was maybe 2014? 

Edited October 19, 2021 by LordFall

[DnoReally]

@LordFall 2014 eh? Man those were the good times in League

[Kshantivadin]

fuck yes, nice one Leo

solo game is what makes a man though I did the initial grind alone, no wingmen. Massive gains.

Can't wait to use this resource.

[Javfly33]

Thanks buddy! To the grind we go!

[something_else]

2 hours ago, DnoReally said:

@LordFall 2014 eh? Man those were the good times in League

Entirely unrelated but this is was a nostalgia bomb 

These guys have a group in my city with 6 people, guess it could be interesting, idk, I feel like I'm more drawn to the path of making extroverted friends to go party with or just going out on my own. Seems to be working OK so far

I don't like the idea of 'doing pickup' per se, I like viewing it as learning so socialise and beat social anxiety instead

[Emotionalmosquito]

Closest one to me is a three hour drive. Not too bad I reckon. Do they offer shuttle services?

[LordFall]

20 hours ago, DnoReally said:

@LordFall 2014 eh? Man those were the good times in League

Dude you know it, so much fun. 

17 hours ago, something_else said:

Entirely unrelated but this is was a nostalgia bomb 

These guys have a group in my city with 6 people, guess it could be interesting, idk, I feel like I'm more drawn to the path of making extroverted friends to go party with or just going out on my own. Seems to be working OK so far

I don't like the idea of 'doing pickup' per se, I like viewing it as learning so socialise and beat social anxiety instead

My fellow summoners rifters all over, I dig it

You don't have to view it as literally going out to pickup a mass of chicks but the people that got sold on the pickup train are generally pretty into self-development in general so it's a good crowd to surround yourself with IMO. Just have to sort through the ones that are toxic and find the ones that are into growth. 

[flyingguitarist]

Uff ..leo thanks

[Breakingthewall]

Guys, sorry for my ignorance, what is wing? what is the game? any link? Before the covid I made a very serious commitment to start 3 daily conversations with girls on the street. It was difficult for me, my ego found excuses all the time, but I did something. I thought it was an original idea of mine ... obviously more people came up with the same thing haha. The covid cut all that... any tutorial on this? Seems really interesting

Edited October 21, 2021 by Breakingthewall

[Emotionalmosquito]

@Breakingthewall We might get another lockdown. If so, you can still approach just wear a mask and stay six feet back. Then once you both get comfortable tell her you’re willing to turn the six feet into six nanometers.