How the hell you get exceptionally good at game

[Javfly33]

I was watching 5 minute prank video of a couple of youtubers of a city near me.

The prank was that this Guy was carrying some ROSES and the joke is that he begins saying "Take It, honey, they are for you" while there are some Girls in front of him, however then an actress ( a friend of the pranksters) is always behind the pranked girls. (So the punchline is finallt the Guy was just talking to the actress )

Anyway, What it surprised me from this video IS the insane amount of instant-hook-attraction GOOD REACTIONS that the pranker got with just that opening.

When you look at the Guy (the pranker) he doesnt say Nothing Fancy (as i said, he only says that 3-4 words each time he approaches a set). HOWEVER, he says It with such an amount of ridiculous confidence, boldness, 100% IN, non attachment. Fuuuck yeah this is how i want to feel when i approach.

How the fuck you get this good at social games/pick Up?

A damn lot of work? Of there is some additional shit you gotta to get to this level? Girls are just instant hooked when they feel the confidence of this Guy. When i approach its like my body/energy/soul is contracted/Broken/divided between 2. Its NOT ONE.

I want to be One confidence grounded mothefucker in my own awesomeness like this pranker ?

[PurpleTree]

the thing is though he didn't want those women

he was just playing a prank on them

so if you don't want them, then you don't fear their rejection, which makes you automatically much more confident and non attached

because they couldn't really do anything that hurts your ego

Edited October 9, 2021 by PurpleTree

[Jacob Morres]

well i'm sure they are pretty skilled because i know a lot of them have a lot of experience with this 

also simulteanously id assume they only upload the good clips. i'm sure they fail a lot 

[Strangeloop]

The freaking paradox is when you don't want them they are attracted to you. When how the hell are we supposed to get the girl that we want? This I don't yet understand.

[OneHandClap]

Keep in mind, too, that a lot of these "prank" channels are using paid actors to pretend to be wooed by the guy in question. There's big business in lying to people about how much game you have on Youtube. 

[Bando]

@OneHandClap Your right also these types of channels spend days/weeks compiling film often doing dozens of approaches to get the reaction they want and do a massive edit to get the good reactions and run with it.

I have a friend that has a pretty big prank like channel and have learned many things about the "Youtube world" just by shadowing him and recording a couple clips for him don't be fooled by these videos you don't know how much work goes into these videos.

[museumoftrees]

You get exceptionally good at game the same way you get exceptionally good at anything. 

[OneHandClap]

32 minutes ago, Bando said:

@OneHandClap Your right also these types of channels spend days/weeks compiling film often doing dozens of approaches to get the reaction they want and do a massive edit to get the good reactions and run with it.

I have a friend that has a pretty big prank like channel and have learned many things about the "Youtube world" just by shadowing him and recording a couple clips for him don't be fooled by these videos you don't know how much work goes into these videos.

Bingo. I think a lot of these channels set up some difficult, if not impossible standards for young men in the real world. No wonder it comes with so much frustration... 

[Lyubov]

All sorts of ways to get somewhat good at it. A lot of guys focus on very surface level stuff to get good when their root problems are keeping them from truly being an amazing lover, "seducer" and boyfriend. I would say one of the single best things you can do to improve your game is get into a deep relationship with a woman you are deeply (mentally and physically) attracted to and reach the point where you both have expressed in words how deeply you love each other. You have to love them so much it hurts. From this point things can get very ugly and painful, fights and painful words will be exchanged, but a ton of shit is going to surface, like you're in a deep psychedelic trip. This will surface all sorts of emotional traumas, negative beliefs, sexual shames, childhood issues, etc. You basically have to enter a relationship like this from a place of wanting to grow and be as conscious as possible and wanting to learn how to love. This then dovetails with becoming an incredible lover in bed. This is equally as important and is part of this experience I'm describing. When you are growing sexually with a woman, and working through all the shit that is keeping your true masculine energy from shining through you are then making real progress. Release the passion and the sex will be healing the both of you. You will find this experience has an incredibly deep and long lasting effect on your overall attraction and ability to find future lovers and get sex. That is if you are willing to integrate, understand and learn from the experience, just like a psychedelic trip. Also, you should be focusing on yourself and your life purpose and other passions and building your dream life. It's next level shit. 

Edited October 12, 2021 by Lyubov

[JonasVE12]

The key to getting good is knowing how to get yourself in a flow state. If you have done pick-up and gone out socialising, you probably know what a flow state feels like. It's where you are fully present and embodied with self-confidence and open energy. Also sexual energy. You subconsciouly also feel abundant in this state. Like there are endless opportunities. 

To get good is to consistently hit these states until they become easier and easier to access, and when you can access them almost instantly. The more you make approaching a consistent practice, the more relaxed you become, the more unattached you'll be, the easier you hit a flow state.

You'll never feel needy and attached in a flow state. You'll feel abudant.

One interaction that is better than your subconscious expectations can pull you up and create positive momentum and then you are in a upward spiral that will bring you right to the peak of a flow state. You'll experience a chain reaction of positive reactions. 

The more negative emotions you release around approaching women, the easier the flow states happen. It all happens through consistency. That's the key. You need to give your nervous system the neccessary input of energy and also the time for it to permanently rewire.